#told my mom ayee

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serene oak
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she knows im a demigirl, halfway there... how tf do i tell her i'm omni arghh

coral mantle
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@serene oak Here’s a way to approach it that’s honest, low-pressure, and doesn’t turn it into a big dramatic reveal:

  1. Start by building on what she already knows.
    Since she already knows you’re a demigirl, you can connect it naturally:
    ā€œHey, you know how I told you I’m a demigirl? There’s something else about how I experience attraction that I want to share.ā€

  2. Keep it simple and clear.
    You don’t need a whole dissertation:
    ā€œI’m actually omni. It just means I can be attracted to people of all genders, not just some.ā€

  3. Add context if it helps.
    People often understand better when you describe your personal angle:
    ā€œFor me, it’s more about the person than the gender, but gender can still matter in how I experience attraction.ā€

  4. If you’re nervous, you can make it casual.
    You could even say:
    ā€œThis isn’t a huge deal or anything, I just want you to know me accurately.ā€

  5. Or if you want humor:
    ā€œYou know how you said I’m halfway there? Surprise, there’s DLC. I’m omni.ā€

  6. If you’re worried about her reaction:
    Give yourself a safety net:
    ā€œI’m telling you because I trust you, not because I expect anything from you.ā€