I fully want to come out but i can't like something catches my tongue every single time. why just why can't I?
(if you're wondering what I'd come out as its bi and trans (MTF))
#Why can't i do it?
rose irisBOT
Call your parents right now
And just go for it now
Nothing bad will happen, no worries
toxic junco
No like it feels like I'm physically being stopped from saying it
rose irisBOT
Write it down
toxic junco
I don't know if that'll work
rose irisBOT
Try to just write it down
If you have, leave it on the kitchen counter and just kinda forget about it
toxic junco
I don't know if that'll work
What i mean by this is my handwriting is so bad that it's basically illegible
rose irisBOT
Write slowly or not in cursive
Gregry26 ↩️
lofty patio
Send an email?
toxic junco
Send an email?
I don't know my parent's emails
toxic junco
Write slowly or not in cursive
I don't write in cursive i just have god awful handwriting writing slow doesn't help
lament cargo
print it out?
severe stag
Ah that's easy. Just repeat the thought of doing it over and over in your head.
Type it down or write it down etc. Just imagine yourself doing it and you should be able to break free and say what you need to say.
toxic junco
print it out?
No printer
toxic junco
Ah that's easy. Just repeat the thought of doing it over and over in your head.
...
been trying that since june
severe stag
been trying that since june
Holy moly, you have it really bad!
That's like really bad...
At that point I'd consider it a psychological block or impairment.
(Not poking fun at you btw.)
lament cargo
here's an idea
get a pin from somewhere, maybe one that expresses your sexuality and gender identity. after a bit of wearing that, your parents may start to suspect you're trans and bi. this kind of forces you into the situation, but since you seem like you really want to do it, you might feel that it would all be worth it in the end.
just an idea (untested tho)
toxic junco
here's an idea
get a pin from somewhere, maybe one that expresses your sexuality...
No money
I could just hope my parents find my notebook as i drew the bi and trans flag in it (i don't want to show it to them as I'm scared)
rose irisBOT
Just leave it on the counter or smth
Gregry26 ↩️
Yeah, it’s hard to get the courage, but it’d be a way
severe stag
A psychiatrist would likely tell you, "Ask yourself what part exactly of telling them gives you the most worry?"
"Separate that from everything else and work your way down."
"Once you've done that, ask yourself if these concerns are just my fears or are they based in fact?"
toxic junco
Just leave it on the counter or smth
Only one who would go through my stuff is my brother though
toxic junco
A psychiatrist would likely tell you, "Ask yourself what part exactly of telling...
Wouldn't know where to start
remote night
Im not trying to be mean or anything so im sorry if this offends you (ill take this down if you tell me to). But to me it seems like you are making excuses to just not tell anyone, correct me if im wrong. You dont want to come out but you just want them to find out and ask you about it, and you dont want your breath to be the one to tell them your trans. What maybe i would recommend doing is (this is the hard part) telling a friend your trans then invite that friend over and tell them to tell your parents "did you know your child is trans" or something like that. And for bi what i did i just kinda told my parents. imo its easier to come out about your sexuality then your gender identity.
I might add more to this later idk tho.
toxic junco
Im not trying to be mean or anything so im sorry if this offends you (ill take t...
I do want to tell them by my own voice but i don't have the courage needed. Reading back i do see how they seem like excuses