#how do i tell my family I'm gay?

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umbral pike
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my parents support lgbtq, as well as my aunt, but my grandparents DESPISE it..

true kiteBOT
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Maybe tell your parents that they don't tell it to your grandparents

tough condor
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Tell ur grand parents and if they don't like it what's the big deal?

maiden crescent
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Ah, lol the older generations.
Haha, they say a lot of funny stupid stuff xD
Hands down, been there and seen it all.
They just do not give a shit anymore and let it fly right out.
It's just their upbringing and you really can't do much to change it.
Sadly.

umbral pike
maiden crescent
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I heard this thing, Idk if it'll help but.
They always like to say, "God made you the way you are for a reason."
And "If god made you a man or woman then you're meant to be that." "As god doesn't make mistakes."
It's an obvious cop-out. Or "God didn't intend for Man & Man or Woman & Woman."
But the reality is, we don't follow the bible, we follow Jesus Christ.
Who really knows if someone manipulated the bible to add things in it Jesus never wanted in it.
There was this whole damn period where the Church and the pope had time to change whatever they wanted in the bible.
They have the original texts from the bible buried in their vaults which are off limits.

They used to say you would go to hell and that if you didn't pay money to the church you wouldn't be forgiven and a whole host of crap.
God and Jesus taught us to love one-another. And that by loving one-another we are in turn closer to god and Jesus.
If god made us perfect the way we are btw, why do people insist on getting plastic surgery and getting implants
and a whole host of stuff? It's hypocritical to say that god made us how we are perfectly but there are people who are perfectly fine
going and treating themselves to cosmetic surgery.

Additionally we know babies are born disfigured, or children grow up to be paralyzed from the neck down.
If you read the bible it'll tell you the reason for these things is due to the curse of sin. That sickness and death are because of sin.
So evidentially god may try and make you in his Image but things can interfere with that.
Furthermore god created us to have free will.

I ultimately believe that so long as you love each other, stay true to one another and love god and make him apart of your life.
Then you are doing right by god end of story.

urban stirrup
hollow warren
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DON'T. There was a therian (hope uu know what that means) out ther who was only 9 and was best friends with her grandfather. They did everything together. They were inseparable. But one day, she decided to tell him she was a therian, and he put a gun to her head and threatened to shoot her if she didn't stop being one. The girl refused, and he shot her. Sometimes it's just not worth it.
True story btw.

urban stirrup
hollow warren
maiden crescent
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Uh erm Uh ok I need to be lvl 10? to post a link.
But this is fake news. Just google: grandfather killed 9 year old daughter for being therian
There is a reddit post discussing this.
This is the reddit code btw: 1aj8c0i
Beyond that I can't provide a link sadly.

hollow warren
ashen grove
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if they bug u about it js tell them it's not their problem as long as YOUR parents are fine with it 😭

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they aren't ur parents

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Ur parents should be the ones worried ( they're not!), not grandparents