Help, the person I have feelings for texted me

[outer perch]

OMGGG WHAAAAT

[native badger]

@outer perch what?

did i do something wrong?

[trail ridge]

No silly that’s like a “OMG NO WAY!” In a positive way

[native badger]

im confused

[trail ridge]

Have you never heard someone say that?

[native badger]

no

nor do i understand it

[trail ridge]

It’s an exclamation that basically just means they’re excited to hear that, it’s not like they literally are asking what

Idk English is weird, if it’s not your first language it’s confusing

[native badger]

i dont know whats exciting about me blushing. i despise blushing

[native badger]

Im American dude but i have a developmental disorder

[trail ridge]

I was trying to be inclusive towards you in case it wasn’t ;-;

[native badger]

its fine

i just dont see how blushing is positive is all

i am not mad

confused tho

[trail ridge]

Cause usually it is

[native badger]

how is having pressure on your face positive?

[trail ridge]

When you make a post saying “the person I have feelings for texted me” it sounds like you’re happy about it

[native badger]

Im not

[trail ridge]

That’s a normally good thing

Then say that 😭

[native badger]

i thought help indicated i wish for help on this

[trail ridge]

This has gotta be ragebait like actually I’m just trying to be helpful and you’re coming off as rude

[native badger]

Im not ragebaiting you

[trail ridge]

It can also have another meaning

[native badger]

if im rude then ig punish me if you need to

[trail ridge]

Some people say “help” as an exclamative

[native badger]

sorry i dont respond well to the rude word

[trail ridge]

Like “Help omg I’m so happy”

[native badger]

its sorta triggering for me

[trail ridge]

Buddy

[native badger]

it is?

[trail ridge]

Nvm

[native badger]

i never herad of that

[trail ridge]

Yes it has multiple meanings

[native badger]

my brian cant keep up with more than one meaning

[trail ridge]

So you’ve never heard someone say “omg what” in that way, and never heard anyone say “help” as non literal

[native badger]

no

[trail ridge]

Yet you ARE a native English speaker and from the U.S

[native badger]

pls dont make fun of me

[trail ridge]

Idk how that’s possible but Yknow what that’s fine

[trail ridge]

Dw I’m not I’m just confirming

[native badger]

if you are gonna judge my English then leave me be

[trail ridge]

Dude nobody is doing that

[native badger]

I did tell you I have a developmental disorder

[trail ridge]

That doesn’t mean you can’t understand anything whatsoever 🤦

[native badger]

then why are you mentioning my country and language?

[trail ridge]

Imma just go clearly my help isn’t helping, genuinely my mistake ig idk

[native badger]

i just dont like blsuhing cus it hurts my face

[trail ridge]

Because I’m gathering my thoughts and confirming what you said?

[native badger]

and sorry but i dont often know many slangs

[trail ridge]

That’s fine, but you have to acknowledge that this by all means seems like a positive post and so nobody is upset and you didn’t do anything wrong

It was just confusing

[native badger]

it doesnt feel positive to me

[trail ridge]

Then please express that in the post is all

[native badger]

you could also just ask?

[trail ridge]

I wouldn’t need to if it was expressed, and who is gonna ask if it already seems positive and by most standards there’s no way to spin it otherwise in your head

[native badger]

well not everyone likes being in love

[trail ridge]

Then again

Express that, because 99.9% of people do lol

[native badger]

Idk how to express things

[trail ridge]

I’m not upset, I’m sorry if I seem that way, but I’m just trying to help explain is all

[trail ridge]

By typing them out and specifying them

[native badger]

well i dont understand but ok

[trail ridge]

Which is why I was explaining in the first place

[native badger]

what if idk how to express it at all?

[trail ridge]

You can’t type out “btw, I mean this in a negative way cause I don’t find love/blushing to be a great feeling”?

[native badger]

well i thought expres meant showing emotions

express

[trail ridge]

Bud again multiple meanings for multiple words

[native badger]

anywyas, i cnat really take back mishaps

[native badger]

and again im dumb

[trail ridge]

Nobody wants you to silly

[native badger]

how am I being silly? / curious

[trail ridge]

No you aren’t, it’s understandable

[trail ridge]

It’s a term of endearment

Not literally silly

[native badger]

what is endearment?

[trail ridge]

Also there ya go thanks for using a tone tag cause with you it’s confusing

[native badger]

i just dont like using codes

i cnat keep up with all those codes

makes me head spin

[trail ridge]

Idk how to explain the word. It’s basically like, a name you call people positively or something.

Technically calling someone the b word could be a term of endearment, it’s something that’s usually seen as somewhat of an insult (not always an insult tho) and it depends on context

[native badger]

i dont understand but ok

sounds complicated

[trail ridge]

For example the b word example is only a term of endearment if yo say it in a playful tone and you’re friends

[native badger]

my head is spinning

[trail ridge]

I know for a fact you didn’t even try to read it because you immediately sent that message

[native badger]

I did read it so dont assume

i just read fast

[trail ridge]

In less than a second, you read an entire paragraph of explanation

[native badger]

yes

[trail ridge]

Okay yeah this is ragebait I’m leaving

[pliant bear]

What is going on?

[native badger]

its not ragebait

yer just very opimnionated

[native badger]

some lady assuming things about me

and telling me how to talk

[pliant bear]

It seemed like she was trying to help you,not assume things

[native badger]

by telling me how to tlak?

[trail ridge]

Nobody assumed anything and you’re literally victimizing yourself for zero reason, when all I did was explain to you kindly how to better word something so people aren’t confused

[native badger]

if it is not about the actual problem i asked about then its not help

its mere correction at that point

but sure gang up on me

[pliant bear]

She's trying to teach you about your actions,you don't need to be rude to her,okay? She's doing the best she can

[native badger]

since all you wish to do i defend them im dleting this poost

idci didnt ask her to

[trail ridge]

Your problem was LITERALLy that you misunderstood the phrase someone said and got anxious about it

[native badger]

now have a good day\\oh but her opinions about me is not rude

[trail ridge]

Okay sure buddy

[native badger]

yer the rude one\

just kindly leave me alone

[pliant bear]

Drak,that's enough

Hattie,could we talk in DMs?

[trail ridge]

Sure if

Idk that it’s even worth the hassle but ig lol

[native badger]

stop messaging this post

[pliant bear]

Drak,stop it right now,I'm serious

[trail ridge]

Literally just ignore it

Mute it

[native badger]

then tell them to leave my post now

[pliant bear]

If you don't like it,ignore it or fuckin leage

[trail ridge]

I said 2 words

[native badger]

then stop relpying

[pliant bear]

Leave

[native badger]

this isnt your post its mine

[pliant bear]

Make me stop replying

[native badger]

i did but you keep opening it back up

[trail ridge]

Ari chill and just leave and go to dms. This person seems to just want to anger others and it’s not worth the hassle or anger

[pliant bear]

I'm trying to help someone who's getting insulted by trying to help!! Don't tell me what to do,who do you think you are,my mom?

[native badger]

if you dont leave my post i will onovle a mod

involve

[trail ridge]

You literally just reopened it. Stop.

[native badger]

why dont you leave it alone?

[trail ridge]

It’s over. Chill out, I sincerely hope you find someone to help you.

[native badger]

the leave my post alone

[trail ridge]

Because you continue to provoke me by continuing to talk in a post you keep saying yourself that you don’t want reopened over and over

[native badger]

you clal me rude yet refuse to leave a post I MADE

[trail ridge]

Go ask for help if you want help, clearly I cannot and I’m sorry. Hope you find it!

[native badger]

then leave my post

[trail ridge]

Please calm down, Ari made a mistake saying that particular comment and I’m sorry about that.

[potent talon]

It’s not you are just being obnoxious and not giving the help they asked for

[trail ridge]

They didn’t ask for help whatsoever because the post says 2 things and both of them are positive in most contexts 🤦

[native badger]

pretty sure i told you that i dont see it as positive

[trail ridge]

You aren’t helping either by continuing to comment on this, the poster specifically requested it not be posted in now

[potent talon]

Well maybe the title with the word help in it gave context

[trail ridge]

WAAAAAAAY after the post was made and halfway through me explaining how to better word it so it’s not confusing

[native badger]

and i told you could of asked what i meant instead of instantly assume it means positive

[potent talon]

We dm’ed and they showed me proof of people being obnoxious so I came to back them up like they asked for in a different post

[trail ridge]

If you had the slightest clue about what I said then you’d know it has multiple meanings and genuinely was confusing

[native badger]

if it was confusing, then simply ask

[trail ridge]

You aren’t the hero you seem to think you are, because I literally had left this post alone and then you responded in an extremely rude way to someone

[potent talon]

Exactly

[trail ridge]

Ari leave too

[potent talon]

Yeah because nobody helped them so I came here to have a go at people for not helping them out like the fucking asked💔✌️

[trail ridge]

Why would I ask about something I wasn’t confused about until after they clarified it wasn’t positive 🤦

[pliant bear]

I dont mean to intrude,but casper,don't ever call me a obnoxious dick again,okay? Because I was trying to back Hattie up,I felt bad and I didn't want him doing this alone,there was no need for that,I was being helpful to him,I didn't appreciate it,it was fuckin rude of you..RUDE DAMN IT...im not leaving,I'm done being treated like this from stupid people!! It's horrible and it needs to stop!!

[trail ridge]

🤦

Ari this has made it worse and you didn’t have to post that.

[native badger]

and dont mock people for their language

[trail ridge]

Not upset but I did tell you NOT to post that

[trail ridge]

I never did, and you’re victimizing yourself when there’s no need

[native badger]

yes you did

[trail ridge]

I said I didn’t

[potent talon]

https://tenor.com/view/shrug-dexter-morgan-idk-gif-2440520923239485215

[trail ridge]

Which LITERALLT means I didn’t

[native badger]

casper scroll up and youll see what i mean

[potent talon]

People did tho

[potent talon]

Oh I already did

[trail ridge]

That’s fine and you can still help people, you’re all good, I’ll talk to u in a bit while I clarify what’s going on

[native badger]

pretty sure this isnt Festive's post

[trail ridge]

🤦

I tried to leave it alone but your white knight here decided to reopen it

[native badger]

if you want help, make your own post

[potent talon]

I’m not trying to be some hero I’m here to give the justice drak deserves

[trail ridge]

“I’m not trying to be a hero” proceeds to paint themselves as a hero

[potent talon]

Only because I’m not letting people be horrible to him

[native badger]

also, if someone wants you to leave their post, it is mannerable to leave it as upon request

[trail ridge]

I have tried explaining multiple times what I meant and how it was NOT meant to be taken as an insult

[trail ridge]

I literally did

[potent talon]

How I’m just defending someone

[trail ridge]

What the actual fuck do you mean dawg 😭✌️

[native badger]

ok but you kept going on about it

it felt like you only wanted to correct me

[trail ridge]

You aren’t defending someone, you’re insulting a random person who themselves has struggles and then causing drama by reopening a post someone said not to reopen

[native badger]

I only wish for help on the blushing thing

which is why i said blushing overload

as in overloaded by blushing

[trail ridge]

Blushing overload can also, for the 99th time, have multiple meanings. In the meaning I THOUGHT it had, it would’ve meant that it was just a cute thing that was happening. Like saying “cuteness overload.”

[potent talon]

First of we all fucking struggle we are human and I was just trying to get darak the help they want✌️

[native badger]

ok and i told you i cna only udnerstand one menaing cus i struggle processing more than one menaing

[trail ridge]

And that’s not me “just trying to correct you,” that’s me clarifying so that you can try to understand my side instead of getting random people to call others dicks for no reason

[native badger]

i did say this

[trail ridge]

Which is why I tried to explain what it meant

I’m not explaining things to be a dick and pompous, I’m explaining things to help you understand them

[native badger]

well i didnt understand sorry

[trail ridge]

Which again

IS WHY I TRIED TO EXPLAIN IT.

However I’m suddenly a villain for trying to help you understand something to better ask for help later 🤦

[native badger]

ok but you only said it can have more than one menaing and how people could take it as positive

[trail ridge]

That’s an explanation

Stop victimizing yourself and for gods sake listen to my side instead of CONSTANTLY making yourself a victim in every single way possible

[native badger]

ok but that doesnt help me understand my issues with blsuhing

im not vitimizing msyelf

[trail ridge]

Like if I were JUST trying to be a dick I’d have given up by now because you aren’t mad, and that’s the point of being a dick

[native badger]

me being confused is not victimizing

[trail ridge]

It DID help you understand your confusion at what the first person said at the start

[native badger]

well yer kinda being rude by making fun of my language issue

which you did do

[trail ridge]

I WAS going to help if I had even realized something was wrong

[trail ridge]

Do I seriously need to screenshot the exact moment I told you I wasn’t making fun of you

Like deadass

[native badger]

you say that but the emoji you sent with it doesnt seem to align with that

[potent talon]

He explained some thing was wrong and then didn’t help at all

[native badger]

in any case, it felt you were since you did point out me not understanding soemthing despite being native in english

[trail ridge]

It’s a thumbs up homie wdym 😭✌️

[native badger]

how am i supposed to not take that as not insulting me?

[trail ridge]

A thumbs up is INHERENTLY positive

It literally is positive

In every single context ever

[native badger]

ok but was positive of you pointing out me not understanding a phrase in english?

[trail ridge]

For the 3rd time

I was trying to recap my thoughts and confirm from you that’s what was happening

[native badger]

you could of not said it to begin with

[trail ridge]

Stop typing and listen to me

Like for gods sake I’m literally explaining how I wasn’t being rude and you just keep going “Nuh uh, dickhead”

[native badger]

you could have just explained the phrase without pointing out me being a native in english

[trail ridge]

You’re obsessing over something that literally does not matter whatsoever in retrospect

[native badger]

it matters to me

[trail ridge]

It is an offhand comment that was explained to NOT meant to be taken as an insult

End of story, that’s it. If someone says it’s not meant to be an insult and apologizes, you drop it and move on

It’s basic etiquette and literally how basically every person but you acts, because it’s the proper way TO act

[native badger]

then just leave if we are to move on

[native badger]

then leave

[trail ridge]

No because then your pal here is gonna call my friends “obnoxious dickheads” for zero reason

Or you’ll victim bait again and go ask for help from someone else who’s gonna do the same

[native badger]

im pretty sure they stopped

[trail ridge]

^

[native badger]

im not victim baiting

[trail ridge]

Ragebait is so atrocious it’s not even funny anymore homeslice 🫩✌️

[native badger]

do you acre more about this than leaving my post that much?

[trail ridge]

Please keep talking

[native badger]

just make your own post

[trail ridge]

Someone insult me again so I can actually report ts cuz it’s atrocious

[native badger]

i dont think you know what rage bait is

[trail ridge]

Like I’m so done

[native badger]

all im doing is asking you to leave a post i created

pls respect my wish

[trail ridge]

I don’t think you understand basic communication because I’ve explained my reasoning 20 times and not once did you go “oh, I’m sorry, I misunderstood what you meant.” And then moved on

[trail ridge]

I did, and tell me what happened after I did

[native badger]

also you are the one ragebaiting by insulting em oevr and over

[trail ridge]

Please, genuinely, tell me EXACTLY what happened directly after I left the post

I want you to say it

[native badger]

just elave my post

[trail ridge]

Go on, tell me what happened after I left

[native badger]

leave my post

[trail ridge]

Nope, not til you tell me

You won’t because it literally invalidates your entire “if you just left my post and respected my wishes it’d be fine” argument

[native badger]

look dude, this usnt your post, so you should be the one leaving

[trail ridge]

So please, tell me what happened last time I left your post and “respected your wishes”

[native badger]

i didnt ask them to talk, i asked them to contact a mod

so dont put that on me

[trail ridge]

I’m not putting ANYTHING on you

[native badger]

uh huh

[trail ridge]

and that’s false reporting if you’re getting a mod over absolutely nothing

[native badger]

you go on and on about manners yet you continue to stay in my post

[trail ridge]

So please, tell me what’s gonna happen if I leave this post again

I know exactly what you’re doing too. You’re trying to get me to say something outrageous and then report me for it

[native badger]

they stopped talking if you ahvent noticed

im not

[trail ridge]

Why don’t you do the same?

[native badger]

just leave

[native badger]

because its MY post not yours

[trail ridge]

Block me. It’s discord. If you want me to stop and leave so bad, actually do something to help yourself instead of getting random people to insult others for you because you’re too scared to do it yourself

[native badger]

i did blcok you but i can still see your messages

[trail ridge]

Then ignore the messages ffs

[native badger]

i didnt ask you to insult me, you chose that yourself

[trail ridge]

Like brother it’s not that hard

[native badger]

if its not hard then leave

[trail ridge]

I never insulted you, I literally said I didn’t, and that entire argument is invalid

[trail ridge]

Keep going.

[native badger]

you made fun of my language issue and my communication so yes you did insult me

[trail ridge]

That’s great!

Sorry you feel that way :>

[native badger]

just go somewhere else

[trail ridge]

Sorry you’re upset

Hope you feel better :>

[native badger]

that it im inovling a mod

[trail ridge]

So sorry! Hope the mods help you!

Are you done now?

[native badger]

@torpid sail here

[outer perch]

NO LIKE OMGGGGGG IM SO HAPPY FOR U MAKE YOUR MOVE QUICKLY!!

[native badger]

I dont want to make a move

and i dont like how love feels

[outer perch]

Oh

Ok then

Also what happened in the chat above?? Omg why were yall arguing??

[native badger]

I dont get how this feeling is supposed to be good if it is uncomfy

[outer perch]

Fair

[native badger]

just some person wouldnt leave my post even tho i asked them several times

they only wnated to correct me

so i told them to leave if they werent helping with the post itself

[outer perch]

There js trying to help because thats what u posted this here for… didnt you??

[outer perch]

No ones attacking u

[native badger]

no they werent helping

[outer perch]

Kinda think they were buddy

[native badger]

i didnt say attack

i said correct

i didnt ask them to correct my post so no they werent

[outer perch]

I think you should apologise for all that u started an unnecessary argument

[native badger]

cant we just agree to disagree pls?

im not apologizing until they apologize for what they said about my language issues and communication

[native badger]

if you only came back here to tell me that then i gusss this is lets defend the person this post isnt about post now

[outer perch]

I came back to help

Why did u post this

This is a help section

[native badger]

then do that instead of telling me how to solve soemthign this post isnt about ok?

[outer perch]

Get out of here if its js for attention

[native badger]

to ask help with my feelings

[outer perch]

We tried to help

[native badger]

this is my post so get out of my post

i shouldnt have to elave my own post

[native badger]

oh sure cus correcting me screams helpful

thats called unwanted help

[outer perch]

Your in here for mental help and other

[native badger]

if you are gonna call me names and stuff then pls leave now

[outer perch]

Excuse me i never called u names

[native badger]

if you dont leave i will involve a mod

im serious

[outer perch]

Such accusations can hurt others

[native badger]

just leave before i call a mod

apaprently you dont listen

[outer perch]

Calling a mod will only get ur self into trouble cuz YOU STARTED THIS ARGUMENT

[native badger]

idc, at least i wouldnt have to see you commenting anymore

@raven patrol sorry its this post

[outer perch]

Hello sorry

Sir*

this guy here has started an unnecessary argument in this chat and stuff

[native badger]

no i didnt

i have asked peopel to elave my post and they wont

[outer perch]

I asked him nicely to apologise and stuff

[native badger]

and i told them i wont apolgize until they apologize for making fun of my communication skills and my inability to understand things in the english language

[outer perch]

No one did that he is lying

[native badger]

look up if you dont believe me

you are allowed to look at the whole chat if you dont believe me

[outer perch]

We tried ti help and he took the advice to a rude way

[native badger]

no they didnt. they only corrected the way i phrased my post

i was asking help for the feelings

[outer perch]

Im really sorry about this all and i hope i didnt disturb u mod thanks for helping us

[native badger]

they only wish to make me look a villain in my own post so you will mute me

so if you dont believe my own words, look at the whole entire post

[outer perch]

Please stop this situation and say who is in the wrong here so sorry

[native badger]

and im pretty sure its harassment to stay in someone's post after asking them to leave