Idk if I'm aroace or not 😭😭 | Pridecord | Page 1

vernal narwhal Nov 13, 2025, 10:12 PM

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hii
Soo
I've given up on gender atp, I just say I'm genderfluid n that's it
But that's not why we're here!!!
so. I'm aegosexual- let's start with that
I've kissed a girl before but I genuinely cannot remember a thing about it so uhh. Ye.
I had a massiveee crush on a girl last summer, and I haven't really felt anything since-
Like I've seen people and thought they're pretty but that's it ;-;

Which is why I think I might be aroace
But maybe that's just normal idk
Also I'm not sure if that crush was actually a crush- like I'd spend a loooong time thinking about her but idk..
I've also never wanted to kiss someone- I'm not sure if that has anything to do w it??
and then there's guys.
I don't think I like em
but that might just be me mentally stopping myself from liking them bc idkk
and enbies r cool :3 but, again, I'm not sure if that's bc I think they're pretty or if I'm actually attracted
I'd love sm help!!!

digital bramble Nov 13, 2025, 10:16 PM

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brah my message got tagged anyway
aroace here, just some questions id ask myself if i were you
do i know what love is?
how often do i experience my definition of love?
have i ever looked at someone and wanted to yk? (sexuality)

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if you don’t have answers to either of these questions i’d say you might be ace

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or ask an actual sexual person cuz these r what helped me find out

vernal narwhal Nov 13, 2025, 10:18 PM

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aaaaa tyy :3 I lowk have answers to none of these 💔💔

digital bramble Nov 13, 2025, 10:18 PM

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then you might be asexual lmao

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i’d still do some research on asexuality before accepting the label

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to see if i could have any other options to identify with

vernal narwhal Nov 13, 2025, 10:20 PM

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I appreciate the help:3 (for other people, would you consider kissing someone a fundamental part of romantic attraction or is it not needed?)

digital bramble Nov 13, 2025, 10:20 PM

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yeah ofc :3

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also opinion here i don’t think kissing = attraction it’s just something you do but it can be used to bond with someone yk like first kiss and shit

vernal narwhal Nov 13, 2025, 10:21 PM

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digital bramble i’d still do some research on asexuality before accepting the label

ye ik I'm aegosexual, I was wondering about romantic attraction mostly TvT

vernal narwhal Nov 13, 2025, 10:21 PM

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digital bramble also opinion here i don’t think kissing = attraction it’s just something you do ...

ou fair fair

digital bramble Nov 13, 2025, 10:21 PM

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i once asked mt sis what love is and she was like

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yk the love you have for your family? it’s that for your crush but it goes deeper

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so maybe see if you have experienced this definition?

vernal narwhal Nov 13, 2025, 10:34 PM

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ooo got it

#Idk if I'm aroace or not 😭😭