so im pansexual but its very hard for people to understand what it is. and its uncomfortable for me to say "I'm pansexual" since its like "uncommon" but if i say im pans people dont get it unless they are pans or in the community. what ways do you make it easier to like tell people without going like "i like a little bit of everything"?
#how to make it easier
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Im not pan so take this with a grain of salt but you can use a metaphor to say it! I love the cake metaphor!
i may sound stupid with this but whays the cake metaphor
I'm also pan and I just say I don't care about your gender as long as I like you. Because truly pan's like a bit of everything and if you like them you like them.
No you dont sound stupid! The cake metaphor is where you use cake as a metaphor for your attraction to people.
Sorry for late response
So you would say you like all cake
Like you eat a bit of every cake
ohhhh i get it