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so idk what tf to do
for context I’ve been going as “Nat” rather than my full name “Natalie” for quite some time now and been mostly preferring they/them pronouns which has been great but I’ve also kept the “she” as an option to refer to me too.
in one sense- I do enjoy being feminine and doing feminine things and such
however
the term “she” just doesn’t fit well as much as it should
I don’t like it that much like- at all
BUT.
j don’t like the idea of dropping it either
bc it kind of gets rid of the feminity that I do appreciate
BUT.
I don’t like really being referred to as “she” that much and I really do like the name Nat more than Natalie
so what do I do? I prefer going as they them and really do want to go as it but I reeeaaallyy don’t want to lose the she bc it lowk feels wrong
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