Need help coming out

[pliant lotus]

So I've known for a while now that I'm non binary and pan, but have had real trouble coming out. I've been trying to tell my parents, but I can never find the right moment. The worst thing is, I know they would both be super supportive, so I don't know why the concept frightens me so much. Also, at school, I'm bullied so much already, I just feel like coming out is going to make it so much worse. There's also an underlying fear of thinning what if I change my mind and identify differently and that's going to make it really awkward. I also just know I lack the confidence to tell anyone anything, so I really want to tell people, but when it actually comes to it, I just can't.

I'm 14 btw

[main blade]

Okay so first things, you should only come out if you know for sure this is what you want to be. I suggest wait a bit until you are ready for the concept of being a non-binary and pan. If you feel you are already ready, then just tell your parents. In my opinion, if you are getting bullied, dont tell the bullies, they are just jealous of you and want to find another thing for them to pick on you for.

If you know your parents will be supportive, then you should tell them as soon as you can! (I also reccomend preparing) but not too much. When you come out to anyone (especially parents) make it sincere and natural.