Hii everyone! I really need help with this because I have absolutely no experience. First, I'll start by assigning letters to the people involved, since the story is long and could be confusing. So, let's call the girl I like K, my female friend L, and my male friend D. So basically, I have a crush on K and she’s from L and D’s class. But I don't know how to approach her, and I'll explain why. First of all, I'm extremely shy, so meeting her in person is out of the question. I thought about messaging her because I already follow her on Instagram, but I'm afraid of getting rejected and her telling my friends. Because they're mutual friends, and every time I see them, she's there, it would create a kind of awkward and bad atmosphere, even though they all (except her) know I'm a lesbian. Also, I asked L if K was a lesbian, and she said she didn't know if she could tell me. And I interpreted that as "okay, K is lesbian, but maybe she doesn't want anyone to know and asked L to keep it a secret, and obviously she did well not to tell me." But then D told me that she is a lesbian, so I didn't understand if K wanted to keep it a secret or not, but anyway. And I thought about saying this to L "Look, I know you can't tell me K’s sexuality, but if she likes girls, can you ask her if I'm her type or if I have any chance with her?" Just so I don’t take the risk before knowing if it would be possible.
#Should I tell my crush that I like her?
daring topaz
- Because K is very Christian and idk sometimes they have all this rules about dating and everything, especially with her liking girls, so idk how it would be. Like, as my sister said, she can like girls but not date them or want anyone to know because probably the church wouldn’t accept that very well. And that kinda makes sense based on what L also said to me. Even though I already know she likes girls, I don't want L to get upset with D because he told me that K is a lesbian, so I'll just omit that part. Cause yk L can be like “Why would you tell her that K is lesbian?” And I don’t want to create any more confusion. But anyway, that's the situation, what do you think I should do?