Im destroying my mental to be with my partner(s) (mostly just the one)

[cyan sparrow]

So my partner & I finally talked last night, and I found out they were so overwhelmed by everything that they couldn’t/didnt want to understand me, bc they don’t understand me at all, they wouldn’t accept any help I tried to give, they told me that they can’t communicate with me bc of their past, some person who told me yesterday that my past doesn’t define me, they are very draining right now to date, I don’t know if I should break up with them or try to help

(Please @ me while talking to me)

[crimson sun]

I suck at relationships, but try to passively give them some help. Maybe a few more compliments or something.