should I tell my mum im lesbian

[fiery dome]

Ik for some ppl it's easy but for me it's not I just can't my mum don't support it what should I do chat

[sullen ember]

Hey,maybe I could help? I'm a lesbian also

[harsh lantern]

No

You shouldn't

[sullen ember]

And why can't I help?

[kind compass]

they asked for help. they’re getting help. simmer down

[sullen ember]

I wanted to be involved more in trying to help,is that a bad thing or something?

[cinder wraith]

Okay this is a hard topic but I’m going to give my opinion here and this is just my opinion, you should do whatever your comfortable with! So if you already know that your mum won’t support you, my advice would be to not tell her, unless your +18 and have your own financial independence and you could support yourself. Because then your mum can’t interfere in your life anymore and can’t do anything about it. Anyway thats me trying to help here, if you want more advice just ask 🙂

[cinder wraith]

There’s nothing wrong with helping if they asked for help! :))

[sullen ember]

It's like no matter what I do to be nice,I always get the treatment of "oh,we don't need your help,you're not help material" like people have to give me an attitude everytime!! I'm sick of it,it's not fair

[cinder wraith]

I’m so sorry to hear that! People that say that to you are really stupid because you’re trying to help, youre doing a good thing and that’s what matters. Like are they doing the same or just being rude to you for no reason? Sometimes we can’t always give advice to everyone of course as we don’t know about everything that goes on in the world, but sometimes people just need a hug or words of comfort and thats also helping!

[harsh lantern]

I meant that she shouldn't tell her mom

[harsh lantern]

Not that she can't help

[sullen ember]

At least you get it..unlike anyone else who fuckin gives me an attitude and isn't as excited to me as everyone else is to others..It's why I barely have conversations in there. Why? Because..BECAUSE PEOPLE LIKE TO AVOID ME AND MAKE ME FEEL LIKE I'M NOT EVEN IN THE SERVER AS IF I'M NOT IMPORTANT OR INTERESTING TO TALK TO..

[fiery dome]

Dw gurl I got ur back

[sullen ember]

Really?

[kind compass]

hey, I understand your feelings but let’s try to keep the attention on the OP. If you’d like to vent about this maybe make your own post about it

[sullen ember]

Would you respond to it?

[kind compass]

sure