I want to come out to my cousin but don't know how

[pseudo spruce]

So im gay and nonbinary. I really want to tell her but I know she's on the conservative side but don't know how far. I keep getting close but im to far at the same time. Please help

[grave mantle]

Just be like, I think i might be gay, then turn it into a topic, or u can start with, if i was gay would you love me as ur cousin?