How do I break up/tell my boyfriend and tell my parents?..

[white lynx]

Hi guys, I just discovered that I might be lesbian. I also don’t like like my current boyfriend, I feel really bad and I don’t know how to break up with him and tell him that I’m probably lesbian… I don’t know how I would tell my parents that if I turn out lesbian… help me please…

[austere grove]

I think the best solution it's to talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. Mention that you don't love him romantically and that it's best to break up. Only if you feel comfortable mention the fact that you might be lesbian, but if you don't feel comfortable, don't tell him. As per your parents, what worked for me was first “test the waters” if you will. Ask how they feel about these sorts of topics, and see if you feel comfortable telling them

[distant plinth]

Hey so that sounds like a problematic situation.

About your boyfriend you could maybe have a conversation with him and explain to him nicely your situation. If you know that he’s homophobic or doesn’t support the queer community that maybe just break up with him and tell him that you don’t feel anything anymore.

And about your parents, I don’t know what they think about the queer community but of they‘re not homophobic and don’t have anything against the queer community then you can probably tell them safely.

It’s completely normal to be scared before their reaction. You only need to know that as long as you’re sure that you‘ll be safe when you come out then you can tell them.

[white lynx]

Great! I’ll do that! Thank you two soooo much, this is really helpful!

[wary pollen]

I understand what it's like at first when you're first discover it. It can be challenging. I've been out as LGBT for 4 years if you want any advice you can DM men

[white lynx]

We broke up…

[rose crest]

what happened? did it go well?

[slate frost]

I'm also a lesbian to

[white lynx]

It actually went horrible

But the thing is that I haven’t told him anything more