Not sure if I'm the red flag or what | Pridecord | Page 1

delicate sage Oct 17, 2025, 4:05 PM

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So basically I'm in this 1 month relationship

tawny wigeonBOT Oct 17, 2025, 4:05 PM

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And this guy

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He gets jealous kinda easily

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Wants me to lessen my sports playing to spend more time with him

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Which I don't want to do since volleyball is my passion

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But that's not the problem

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So basically I drink STING energy drinks (extremely unhealthy) after sports

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And he keeps telling me to stop

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To the point that he said "if you don't stop I'll SH"

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I admit I was a red flag since I never felt a spark, and I never made time for him

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But this crossed a line since I used to struggle with SH and I relapsed

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I want a relationship with not many rules, doesn't get jelous

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I wanna break things off but I'm not sure if it's too early since it's only been a month

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And I feel like this is wrong for both me and him

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Because I don't love him as much as he expects me too and I feel that he sets alot of rules

urban cosmos Oct 17, 2025, 4:09 PM

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tawny wigeon To the point that he said "if you don't stop I'll SH"

Yeah that’s fucked

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My advice is get outta there

tawny wigeonBOT Oct 17, 2025, 4:10 PM

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I will try but I'm not sure how to say it without hurting him

the baconing ↩️

[Reply to:](#1428775971732979923 message) My advice is get outta there

urban cosmos Oct 17, 2025, 4:11 PM

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I mean honestly whether or not it hurts him isn’t your problem

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Like don’t be a dick about it, but beyond that he’s not your responsibility

tawny wigeonBOT Oct 17, 2025, 4:12 PM

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Thank you, I think I'll do it when I'm in the right head space

the baconing ↩️

[Reply to:](#1428775971732979923 message) Like don’t be a dick about it, but beyond that he’s not your responsibility

urban cosmos Oct 17, 2025, 4:13 PM

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Like the moment he threatens SH to get you to listen to him, he doesn’t get to make you care about his feelings anymore ykwim

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Cause that’s fucked up
As someone who stayed with someone like that for too long, take my advice and get out of that relationship as soon as you can

tawny wigeonBOT Oct 17, 2025, 4:14 PM

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I'm just afraid that after we break things off he might SH or commit or something

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Since he's a sensitive person

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I'm the dumbass for getting in a relationship in the first place

urban cosmos Oct 17, 2025, 4:16 PM

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tawny wigeon I'm the dumbass for getting in a relationship in the first place

That’s not the problem

urban cosmos Oct 17, 2025, 4:16 PM

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tawny wigeon I'm just afraid that after we break things off he might SH or commit or somethin...

This is gonna sound blunt, but he probably won’t and it’s not your problem if he does
He needs help, but not from you
Bro needs to talk to a therapist

tawny wigeonBOT Oct 17, 2025, 4:17 PM

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Thanks.

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I think I'm also gonna talk to god about it.

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Thanks for the help I appreciate it.@urban cosmos

urban cosmos Oct 17, 2025, 4:18 PM

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No problem

tawny wigeonBOT Oct 18, 2025, 12:28 PM

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Another problem..

the baconing ↩️

[Reply to:](#1428775971732979923 message) No problem

urban cosmos Oct 18, 2025, 12:43 PM

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Ye

urban cosmos Oct 18, 2025, 12:44 PM

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tawny wigeon Another problem..

What’s the problem?

tawny wigeonBOT Oct 18, 2025, 2:52 PM

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He's cutting himself after our breakup😞

the baconing ↩️

[Reply to:](#1428775971732979923 message) What’s the problem?

urban cosmos Oct 18, 2025, 2:53 PM

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Tell him to get therapy

tawny wigeonBOT Oct 18, 2025, 2:55 PM

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And the thing is most of my friends see me as the villain

the baconing ↩️

[Reply to:](#1428775971732979923 message) Tell him to get therapy

urban cosmos Oct 18, 2025, 2:56 PM

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If you tell them that he was threatening SH to get you to do stuff they’ll understand

tawny wigeonBOT Oct 18, 2025, 2:58 PM

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They still tell me that it's my fault

the baconing ↩️

[Reply to:](#1428775971732979923 message) If you tell them that he was threatening SH to get you to do stuff they’ll understand

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This cannot be good for my mental health omgosh i think I'm gonna switch schools

urban cosmos Oct 18, 2025, 2:58 PM

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Yeah idk what to do from there

tawny wigeonBOT Oct 18, 2025, 2:59 PM

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Ughhh I hate this situation I got myself in

tawny wigeonBOT Oct 18, 2025, 5:27 PM

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My mental health cannot be healthy

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How do I escape this

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Do I just stop caring? That seems messed up

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Also texted me "Di ko kaya" (I can't do it..)

#Not sure if I'm the red flag or what