coming out to family and school

[spring osprey]

i'd like to soon come out to the people at my school and my parents about my bisexuality

obviously it would be a bit hard to tell them about how i'm non-binary, and i don't know how my family will take it (they will most likely find out from other parents at my school if i come out)

i'm also a bit worried that there'll be people in my school pretending to be sexual with me, which i really don't want

the people that i'm already out to are quite supportive of me, but given how i've never come out to more than one person at a time, i don't know how to come out to a group

does anyone have any suggestions on how i could come out?

[torn holly]

any moment where you only meet one parent? you can tell them about it as long as they arent homophobic. Also, first come out as bi, then later as non-binary to make sure they are at least semi-supportive

[spring osprey]

i only really trust my mother with even thinking of coming out to any of my parents, my father gives off homophobic feelings sometimes

[torn holly]

Try coming out to her first then, just make sure she doesnt tell anyone, and, if you want to, tell her to not overreact and let you live the same life

[spring osprey]

do you know how i could come out to people in my school as well?

[torn holly]

i didnt have to deal with that, but you can probably tell someone else to spread the message for you

I kinda did that and it really helped

[spring osprey]

so should i tell the people who i'm out to that they can out me if they like?

[torn holly]

It´s probably the easiest way