⚠️VENT ⚠️ TW: BREAKING UP AND SH

[lean loom]

Quick rant: TW: ||breaking up and sh||
Pronouns: my ex: she/they. me:they/them

So basically my partner of 1 year broke up with me today, it’s because they discovered that she’s polyamorous (I’m not) and she is falling for 2 other people. She told me that if I’m not willing to date more people than them, we should break up. Ive always been scared of this moment because I’m Acriromantic (on the aroace spectrum: can fall in love but takes months/years of trust due to trama, fear of being lonely or due to one’s Neurodivergence) and I’m so sad right now, I really loved them, I respected their pronouns (she never did) and we’ve been inlove for a while, I have a 90 day clean streak and it hurts so much in how bad I want to ||cut|| right now it’s actually scary, I’ve been using my coping strategies and I’m safe for now I just wanted to share, if u wanna respond you can!

[swift elm]

First of all- I’m so sorry that happened. I can feel what it’s like is to go through relationship stuff and how hard it is. Polyamorous is rlly difficult bc jealousy and loss of attention or love can lead to a very emotional state and I don’t blame chu for not wanting to be part of that. I know it’s hard but please don’t hurt yourself or do anything to harm. What they did was pretty awful but you shouldn’t have to face the consequences for this. There is always help and better sides of the story so try to make it through it. I don’t rlly know chu but I’m more than happy to support chu and make sure your safe and happy. I hope chu feel better soon, even if it may be hard…
Lots of love 🤎