#Im scared my parents are fighting again

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wise perch
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i feel really upset and scared its my fault, i dont want them to split again i feel scared.

sly stag
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why do you feel that it's your fault if you dont mind me asking

wise perch
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because ive been asking my parents for lots of stuff and i js feel like im the problem

sly stag
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you said you dont want them to split again do you know why they did the first time

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im just trying to better understand and help you out so im sorry if anything sounds like im being a ass

wise perch
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No dw and no

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they barely speak to me

sly stag
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are you able to think of anything that might be causing problems outside of the house maybe other people

wise perch
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No i dont get out much except for school

sly stag
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hmmmm im not to sure then i would say talk to your parents individually and see if you can find the problem now idk if you have anxiety or anything so it might be hard but i think the best way would be to ask but thats just me

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but also your parents might just not be compatible as partners and it wont work out

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your parents may have different values or goals and they just can't fufil those with the person they are with

crisp coyote
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Following up to that, adults still have attachment issues, so, whether they're married or not, they can have polar-opposites of attachment, such as Anxious Attachment to Avoidment Attachment

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I wouldn't even ask, honestly