How do I do this help me

[jovial zinc]

So like, I’m AFAB but I haven’t felt that way in 3 years. Idk if I’m trans or non binary or somewhere in the middle but ik im not a girl, and I also know my parents won’t accept that. They’ll prolly tell me my trans friends are brainwashing me and that I’ll always be a girl and all that and ik it’ll hurt but I can’t keep living like this. It’s making me feel so uncomfortable and I genuinely dk what to do.

[lament mesa]

Honestly, be yourself. You don't need to put yourself in a labelling box. You're a human being and your parents' child, that's what matters.

Plus, why would your trans people be brainwashing you? Those people, to my knowledge, are one of the most understanding people concerning identity.

[jovial zinc]

Thanks man. I don’t know, my parents r js delusional like that. I’m not planning to come out until I’m 16 though, js to make sure they don’t think I’m too young to know yk.

[lament mesa]

“Too young to know”? They wouldn’t even dare.

[jovial zinc]

Nah they did when I told them I was bi a year ago 😭 (plot twist I’m gay now)

And my mom also refuses to acknowledge the fact I’m prolly neurodivergent and won’t let me get a diagnosis so it’s def not only abt the trans thing (GIRL LITERALLY TOLD ME TO STOP SHAKING MY LEG BCZ IM ‘DOING IT ON PURPOSE’..💔) anyways ts is turning into a rant im sorry 😭

[lament mesa]

No, you’re fine. I totally get it.

[jovial zinc]

Thanks twin

[lament mesa]

It took me a while to actually understand who I am, and I don’t want you to go down a rabbit hole (again).

[lament mesa]

No problem

[jovial zinc]

I barely understand who I am honestly but I’ll try figuring it out eventually

[lament mesa]

You’ll figure it out. I believe in you.

[jovial zinc]

HELP TYSMMM

[lament mesa]

No problem. If you have any other issues, you come to me, okay?

[jovial zinc]

Thanks for all of the support 😭 my DMs are always open too, I js don’t check them that often lol

[lament mesa]

Understood 🙂

[jovial zinc]

Anyways yeah thx a lot twin