#Parents

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ebon raft
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So I'm bi, and my parents are Christian and believe homosexuality is against the bible. I want to tell them, but I don't want to face their judgement. Idk what to do and I'm super nervous. (I'm Christian too)

storm night
# ebon raft So I'm bi, and my parents are Christian and believe homosexuality is against the...

haii! so personally im christian and im bi (twinnn) and idk what type of christians your parents are but i believe true christian shouldnt be condemning others. yes, we can point out a sin and try to help someone not sin but ultimately its between said person and God. also, who are we to judge others for sinning differently? like personally as a person that is bi and christian I dont get how someone can get so mad about a sin that is based literally on love. and the people who judge arent sinless. like lying is a sin too and i bet u do that? so why get so mad at something that is literally just love. so ultimately its up to you to decipher if you think theres a point in sharing and if you think sharing would be helpful in anyway or if it would result in a fight.

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sorry thats kinda all over the place but hopefully u understand what im sayinggg

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u got this tho! 🫶

ebon raft
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I just dont want them to be disappointed

storm night
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do you think they most likely will?

ebon raft
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they're probably gonna be like: 'Oh. You realize that's against the Bible?'

patent breach
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Ultimately it's up to them to be good people, but if you feel unsafe about it in any way, have an exit plan first. I was overcautious and didn't come out till i was like, 30. I don't generally recommend that. My parents probably would have been forgiving, i was just in denial for a long time.

stone mirage
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uhhhhhhhhhhhhh don't tell ig