#Here for you

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gloomy nacelle
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Hey, it can be rough, but please know you’re not alone, if you need to vent, rant or talk and you need someone to listen, I’m here. My DMs are open (15+ cuz I’m 17 and I don’t feel comfortable conversing with very young people in private) if anyone needs them, and I will also talk here. RainbowHeart

north wigeon
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Yellow... I'm very new to discord so I don't know how this works... Do I just begin talking and u listen or how do I do???

gloomy nacelle
north wigeon
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So as u can see I'm patience and I hate my life have no friends don't know my sexuality likes rock metal and is really lost... And I really need help to find out how I start

gloomy nacelle
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Have you ever felt attraction to anyone? You could start there?

north wigeon
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There is a guy rn who I really like

gloomy nacelle
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That’s nice :)

north wigeon
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But then a year back or so there was another person which took their own life

gloomy nacelle
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How do you feel about that right now?

north wigeon
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Really bad

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I feel it is my fault

gloomy nacelle
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I don’t think it is

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How do you feel that it’s your fault?

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If you want to talk about that

north wigeon
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I don't really wanna talk about it... If that is fine

gloomy nacelle
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That’s 100% okay

north wigeon
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Thanks

gloomy nacelle
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Do you want to talk about the new guy you like?

north wigeon
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Yeah... Can u wait like idk five min... Parents

gloomy nacelle
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Yeah, just message me when you’re ready, I’ll be doing homework until then

north wigeon
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I'm back

gloomy nacelle
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Hey

north wigeon
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So that guy

gloomy nacelle
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Yeah?

north wigeon
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Where should I start... Looks or like???

gloomy nacelle
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Up to you

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Why do you like him?

north wigeon
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He understands me

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I think the thought of a person liking u can be a big factor in why u like the person

gloomy nacelle
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Definitely

north wigeon
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The thing that made me really like him was after he sat on me a whole afternoon

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Loll

gloomy nacelle
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That’s sweet

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Do you find him nice? :)

north wigeon
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Because there where no chairs left

north wigeon
gloomy nacelle
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Do you find you may gravitate towards people because of personality or kindness over how they look?

north wigeon
gloomy nacelle
north wigeon
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Yup I think that is a good way to put it

gloomy nacelle
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Well, then you can probably rule out being Demiromantic/demisexual then

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Most of the time, those who are Demi don’t feel any attraction until they get to know the person really well

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What else do you like about this guy?

north wigeon
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I like he doesn't judge ig

gloomy nacelle
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That’s really lovely :)

north wigeon
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Like if I drink he does not say that it is gross or bad for me... He just takes care and makes sure I'm safe ig.

gloomy nacelle
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He sounds really kind and like a lovely person :)

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Does he know you like him?

north wigeon
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Idk

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Wait u wanna hear something both weird good cool gross and sweet at the same time

gloomy nacelle
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Yeah? :)

north wigeon
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Ok... We where out yesterday and then out of nowhere he offered to give a b1ow j0b😭

Tbh I should have said "no... But I wanna make out" or something like that

gloomy nacelle
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I tink he likes you

north wigeon
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So I think he likes me😭😅

gloomy nacelle
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Yeah, probably

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Do you think you’re gonna ask him out?

north wigeon
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Yup... Either that or just like go with the flow (queens of the stone age reference) and like if he says something like that again just idk try to kiss him or something like that

gloomy nacelle
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I think that’s lovely :)

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You guys seem to get along nicely and he definitely likes you

north wigeon
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But I'm scared he might die like the other one😭

gloomy nacelle
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That’s a valid concern, does he struggle with his mental health?

north wigeon
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And then I'm scared I might do something stupid and die so he gets depressed or something

north wigeon
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But we both smoke and drink... And then there is the beloved sh.

gloomy nacelle
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Well, one thing I know is that having a partner should help your mental health because you have someone to rely on

gloomy nacelle
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But you said he looks after you when you drink, yes?

north wigeon
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Yes

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He likes to smoke more than he likes to drink

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And I do both quite a lot tbh

gloomy nacelle
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Do you feel like you can lean on each other when you need it?

north wigeon
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Ye

gloomy nacelle
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Then I would say that if you do go out with him, express your concerns and ask home to come to you if he is struggling and make sure he is good for hour to go to him for the same

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I know that everything is probably terrifying, but it seems like you guys are a really good match and you seem to really love him

north wigeon
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Ye... Thanks

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Can I give u an update if something happena

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Happens

gloomy nacelle
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That sounds good :)

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I wish you luck

north wigeon
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Thanks for listening

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It's been a long time since I could talk to a person