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spice epoch Oct 3, 2025, 10:42 PM

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So my best friend, let's call him E, (E is transmasc and open) just told me today that he has a crush on someone. He said it way a girl, which was weird because E told me he didn't like girls because of his sexuality, so I was surprised and confused, I thought it was me at first, but I second guessed. So I just kept asking questions until lunch, which was when I was told that there name started with a c, and my name starts with a c. E had a crush on me. But E has a bf, which we will call T, and so I was so confused. E said it was because of a dream he once had, I don't know. But I don't know how to feel because I feel like I like E but I feel bad for T, and I don't know if its right. Also E also goes by they/them and I don't now about my sexuality at all right now. I am confused but I don't want to upset E. I have had a little thing that I thought i liked E, but I denied it because I was a girl, and E didn't (i thought or just maybe at the time) like girls, and he had a bf. I don't know how to feel. I feel so bad for T tho and I don't know what to say. I kinda like E (even though I kinda denied/deny it) but I don't know if I say I like and and E brakes up with T. T also said if they broke up he would end himself. I don't wanna say I like E and make them brake up, causing T to do that. Also what if we start dating but we brake up and that ruins are friendship?

How should I deal with this. What should I do. What should I say to E!

fast sky Oct 3, 2025, 10:57 PM

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well, if E has a crush on two people, that means they would likely want a polyamorous relationship (hypothetically could be polygamous, but that's not practiced very much anymore). First, what you'd probably want to do is make sure E wasn't joking. Second, you might want to ask E if T knows that E has another crush. Third, you want to observe and see if it really is you or not. Fourth, you'd want to see if T also likes you, if T does, then T is probably okay with it. And in the case where T also likes you, do you like T. If any of these cases turn out that the outcome is not what you expected, I wouldn't try to say that you like E because E might have more of a crush on you than T, and would likely end the relationship with T.

spice epoch Oct 3, 2025, 11:02 PM

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I have talked to E for the past couple days, I found out they were poly, I dont really like T that much, I dont know how T feels. I have also heard from E that (i don't know if I should say thos but whatever) E doesn't know if he likes T anymore. E said that he doesn't like how he looks (E likes personality more but-) and that E regrets saying some things to E (not saying).

E said that he didn't know if he likes T romantically anymore..

fast sky Oct 3, 2025, 11:03 PM

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uh, oh! I hope that T doesn't, you know

spice epoch Oct 3, 2025, 11:05 PM

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Yea, I was gonna say that T doesn't know that and doesnt know that E has a crush on me. I looked on T's profile and it it said, im taken and I love him so much... I'm worried..

fast sky Oct 3, 2025, 11:06 PM

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This is bad, um, maybe try recommending therapy since they said they would end their life if they broke up? just to prepare T

spice epoch Oct 3, 2025, 11:08 PM

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Yea, one of my friends, who knows T well almost told him and E was freaking out. I really feel bad for T and if they brake up I wanna help T. Also E is very scared to say because E said that T has a really big fear of being cheated on because he has been before..

fast sky Oct 3, 2025, 11:09 PM

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is there any excess information that might help this situation? maybe something about T or E? or like, do you not know?

spice epoch Oct 3, 2025, 11:13 PM

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E doesnt have a screen really that much, got taken away, and T goes to a different school. They mostly message on disc. I have T on disc so I can message him whenever. 3 people know (i think), me, E, and another friend. There are some people i know who don't know what we are talking about. I amd also halfly E's therapist, so I know that E doesnt like T (maybe?) and how much E did like T at first..

fast sky Oct 3, 2025, 11:14 PM

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please, please, recommend T a therapist over discord, and I mean an actual therapist

spice epoch Oct 3, 2025, 11:15 PM

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Ok, I will tell him that! Thank you! I hope T will be ok with me saying that though.

fast sky Oct 3, 2025, 11:15 PM

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and don't immediately tell T that E doesn't like them anymore

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that will NOT result well

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