how do i come out to my strong homophobic, christian parents

[hard holly]

i would say it depends on your age and financial status. if you feel that you are good to live on your own, or you have somewhere you can stay if things go wrong, then just tell them "hey, i know you might not agree with this, but i have a gf and i really do like her". otherwise, if you dont feel safe/cant go anywhere else then you should wait until you are a bit older

[unkempt wind]

That's so sad, religion is so toxic. I mentally leave my Balinese Hindu religion because they say about this gay people will going to hell, so i don't believe that and now i became agnostic theism

[brazen jetty]

Well since they found out u 2 "were" together then they already know🫢

[summer estuary]

sadly im not, but i am waiting until i move out until i tell them so they wont be able to tell me what to do so if they chose to not except me, it wont be my problem

[summer estuary]

yes and now bc i told them we werent tg anymore but we are

[summer estuary]

yeah its it, i personally dont believe but i still attend church because i would like to know more about it

[brazen jetty]

Waiting until u move out is a good decision, my parents r the same as yours so that was my plan but i gave up on that and started doing my hair and nails and they said nothing 😅

If you're from a black family it'll wayy worse and if not you'll have it easier and it depends on your age🤷🏽

[summer estuary]

lol nah im not

[summer estuary]

yeah if my parents find out, i wont be able to see her until i move out

[brazen jetty]

Right

[brazen jetty]

How old r u?

[summer estuary]

the girl im with is also older so she will most likely get a job before me so we can start saving for an apartment

[summer estuary]

13 (yeah ik im young but idrc)

[brazen jetty]

Oh...then it'll be harder for u

[summer estuary]

yeah but i can get a job when i turn 14

[brazen jetty]

But you wont be able to move out at that age

[summer estuary]

yeah but i can start saving money so i can move out when i turn 18

[brazen jetty]

Yeah so you gotta wait then, cant tell her now

[summer estuary]

yeah

[brazen jetty]

And telling them over the phone is never a good idea so dont do that

[summer estuary]

im thinking about telling them before i leave to go to my apartment so ill be moved out

[brazen jetty]

🤏🏽