i feel like yes you should talk to your significant other about it, if not now then later on into the future. if you dont tell them soon then it could become a bigger problem though, also that if your trust your partner then to rely on them for that too yk? like, they have a life outside from your relationship and they'd like to live it too. along with that, they want YOU and they chose you over everyone else, and if you want time with them tell them that!! idk if this helped at all..!!
#I need like.. Actual advice or help.
wild warren
i feel like when that happens, you should be direct about it or be kinda short with the other person, like for example, person comes up to you both and starts talking to you guys, and if you begin to feel a sort of way, ask your partner if it could just be the both of you because you want more alone time with them
ahh okay, yeah that makes sense! and i feel like your partner should be open to how you feel and the way you are, especially since theyre the one your in a relationship with! along with that, even if you don't have their attention, you could cling onto them or hug them just to feel closer to them, that way you don't feel as much jealousy
you gotta be stern with it, be like, hey right now i'm with my partner and i wanna have this quality time with them, if its important then yes i understand but right now i want to spend time with my partner
sometimes if they cant take a hint, be blunt even if it sounds mean. because you cant help but want that
woah woah, you've told and expressed that you don't like your partner like flirting with them or their friends? because if they keep doing that, then they're passing a boundary and thats not okay whatsoever
okay, now it matters
i hate this shit but your partner needs to choose, your comfort or their shitty friend who doesn't know how to stop. because your partner is enabling it by letting it continue, and either your partner is a bad partner and nto respecting you or your significant other needs to drop that friend because that is NOT fucking okay
especially if you both said no and it makes you uncomfortable
and i'd say this is something you'd need to talk about with your partner
especially if it's extreme, it could explain for future references if things do happen
oh goodness lol (family thing) and yes, i understand the verabally expressing thing too, you guys have to work together as a team and go through it together, you voice it for them and they actually put it into action
mellow escarp
Communication is literally THE number one thing in a relationship, like #1 #1, so def try at the very least, even if it isn’t exactly easy or comfortable sometimes
wild warren
always ask for their opinion and what they want as well
mellow escarp
Exactly
wild warren
Communication is literally THE number one thing in a relationship, like #1 #1, s...
i agree with this! communication isn't easy but thats the way to do it especially if you really want it to work! (i learned the hard way)
mellow escarp
i agree with this! communication isn't easy but thats the way to do it especiall...
I never got an opportunity to learn (nobody wants to date me LOL) but I have that “one friend that never dated anyone but gives out the best relationship advice” vibe because my parents relationship is great and I learn from them and they have taught me how I should be treated and how I should treat others 
wild warren
awee wait thats sweet!
my parents want me to focus on school, and i lowky agree i cant do anymore relationships
mellow escarp
But yes 100% at the very least TRY to communicate, I can understand it being difficult or even uncomfortable but it’s important to. A relationship is built on trust and communication, always
Friendship or otherwise
wild warren
yes!! it's something that'll strength your relationship with your significant other or just people in general!
mellow escarp
my parents want me to focus on school, and i lowky agree i cant do anymore relat...
I don’t struggle academically (not saying you do dw) so I breeze for the most part and can focus on other things, luckily 😌
mellow escarp
yes!! it's something that'll strength your relationship with your significant ot...
So true girlypop
Or anything pop idk LOL
wild warren
I don’t struggle academically (not saying you do dw) so I breeze for the most pa...
lucky!
mellow escarp
That’s fine idrm
Nah I don’t take offense to anything
If it’s constructive it’s constructive
wild warren
im just curious easily
mellow escarp
Oop everything got deleted
plush star
yea
mellow escarp
Kirby is peak
wild warren
my ex lowky hates kirby because of me..
mellow escarp
my ex lowky hates kirby because of me..
It’s okay, Kirby hates them too ❤️
/silly ofc
plush star
they left the server
wild warren
okok lol
mellow escarp
Oh wow
wild warren
wait who now
plush star
the original poster of this
mellow escarp
wait who now
The person who made the post
plush star
ugh i always want to say something comforting in these threads. but UGH i never know what to say
wild warren
dude lowky tho, i be looking at a lot of these and wanna say something but idk what
mellow escarp
ugh i always want to say something comforting in these threads. but UGH i never ...
It’s okay! If I don’t know what to say, I just say “I see this and you’re not alone, I hope someone can help you!” Or something similar
Sometimes literally just feeling seen is enough to help someone
plush star
yea
mellow escarp
I know it helps me when I’m down!
wild warren
yes! thats super true!!
mellow escarp
🗣️🔥
mellow escarp
yes! thats super true!!
You’re so real bestie 🔥🔥🔥