#Idk how to help people

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ocean rivet
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Trying to help people in these channels but I can never think of anything to say. Kinda feel useless.

One of the main things that make me happy is making other people happy by stuff like helping them with basically anything. I decided to stay in this server when I joined it because I found it a hobby to look through this channel and the help desk channel to try and help people but…. I can just never think of what to say… and then I just… skip them… I feel really bad when I do that :(

knotty niche
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oh hon, I know how it feels and I honestly feel the same sometimes : ( the best thing to do is just remind yourself that you are trying to help as many people as you can. Take a breath 🤍

chilly epoch
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What Sof said!!!! As much as you may feel obligated to, you can’t help everyone. And that’s okay! If you don’t, it’s surely to happen that someone else can. Now, that’s not to say you shouldn’t help; just that while it’s important to help others, we need other sources of joy and sometimes you need to take a break from helping others, and you aren’t the only one helping!

I’ve been going through and helping as many folks as I can too, and you’ve inspired me to keep going, because I know that I’m not the only one who cares. Bless ya, and I hope you can take a break and a breather, a moment to yourself, and to your wonderful, kind soul ❤️