Need help, semi-urgent

[mystic phoenix]

How do I come out to my parents? They’re Christian so I don’t know how they’ll take it. I want to get HRT as soon as possible but ofc I can’t do that without my parent’s permission, but it’s expensive and they’ve shown history of hating trans people (they made me watch transphobic slop 🥲)
I haven’t even told them my true pronouns/the name I want to go by, and i internally since whenever they use feminine terms/use she her/deadname me but I never say anything. Advice? Should I just stay in the closet until I’m 18?

[flat aspen]

honestly yea probably just stay in the closet till your 18

[mystic phoenix]

Thought so
I’m just worried that gender-affirming care might be banned by the time I’m 18 😭

[flat aspen]

im worried about that too, but with transphobic parents who won't let you get it, i don't think theres much you can do but hope for the best

[candid tusk]

I think the Supreme Court would ruled that as unconstitutional since you would be an adult. But idk they’re literally considering of overturning same-sex marriage.

They’re expected to make a decision on whether or not to take the case in October btw

[mystic phoenix]

With the way things are going I wouldn’t be surprised if they did

[flat aspen]

yea

[candid tusk]

Yeah same

[mystic phoenix]

I semi-confirmed (without coming out) that my family is indeed VERY anti-lgbtq

Yeah they’d go ham if they knew I’m trans

[flat aspen]

wish you good luck

[candid tusk]

Dang that’s sucks I wish they were more supportive or at least would respect it.

[mystic phoenix]

Whyyyy oh why did my parents have to be transphobic

[mystic phoenix]

Can’t expect anything like that from a Christian family I fear

Fortunately though they don’t know I’m trans

[flat aspen]

the best you can do is jut wait it out till your 18

or until you move out

[mystic phoenix]

Would telling my therapist do anything

[flat aspen]

think about if your therapist would tell anybody

do you 100% trust them

[mystic phoenix]

Yeah

[candid tusk]

Yeah

[flat aspen]

then i would say go for it

[candid tusk]

I agree

[mystic phoenix]

I’m just glad that at least my parents respect that I don’t like feminine things

[flat aspen]

at least theres that

[mystic phoenix]

I’m being REAL risky by making trans-themed items for myself,,,

I do t think they would recognize it,,,hopefully

[flat aspen]

just be careful

[mystic phoenix]

It sucks that I have to hide my gender identity like it’s my secret boyfriend or something

[candid tusk]

Yeah I absolutely agree that’s it’s sucks

[mystic phoenix]

My mom thinks I’m a lgbtq but in a completely different way omgosh

She thinks I’m a lesbian

And she had this whole like meltdown cuz she’s worried that I’m gay

Well, now I DEFINITELY won’t come out 😭

Especially not as trans, she literally told me that me being trans is her worst nightmare

Sigh

[candid tusk]

What did you say to her after she said this?

[mystic phoenix]

Well, I told her that I’m “not trans” and “not lesbian” and that I “don’t” support lgbtq

(All of these are lies.)

Well except for the lesbian part

[candid tusk]

Yeah makes sense especially for your safety.

[candid tusk]

Question do you have Discord as a lock app? And is your device password strong and your family doesn’t know it?

Or do you just log out and log back in like every time?

[mystic phoenix]

No, how do you that?

I’m always logged into my discord

[candid tusk]

Do you have a iPhone?

I mean I’m pretty sure it’s not just a iPhone thing btw

[mystic phoenix]

Yeah

[candid tusk]

Well I would give you a link but I don’t have enough levels in this server apparently to sent you a link.

It’s was just a Apple Support page

[candid tusk]

Well this is the title of it: “Lock or hide an app on iPhone” so just Google that.

[mystic phoenix]

Thanks