How do I come out as non binary

[rose spoke]

Hey I found out I am not fitting to either male or female so I am non binary I have concluded
How do I tell my parents who already know I. Am gay

[umbral trellis]

Just tell them if they are accepting

[rose spoke]

Problem there major problem, my parents are homaphobic but I am under a threat of being exposed again my parents didn’t know I was gay till my bestie went behind my back and told them so I fear they will do that again

[rose spoke]

Any advice would be much appreciated

[hexed ridge]

If ur chritian you coud use the bible as you diffence

[rose spoke]

Yeah but that causes hell for me I don’t know

[hexed ridge]

You shod read the bible get the verses abput respect than come out

That may take some time tho

But rember your 1st so dosnt matter who u supports u

[rose spoke]

My parents hate me being gay so I don’t know if they will be okay with me not having a gender

[hexed ridge]

Tell them you wanna be non-binery and if they dont respect your desion ignore the pronouns they try to call you and only respont if they call yoh correctly

They cant force a gender upon u

[rose spoke]

I could but I would get grounded I have had to buy myself a new phone after they ran it over with the car as a punishment

[hexed ridge]

Is ur phone a gift from a bday

[rose spoke]

No it wasn’t

And I also cannot afford a new one if it happens again

[hexed ridge]

Well this is a limbo

[hexed ridge]

You said again

You bouth it with ur money

?

[rose spoke]

Yea

[hexed ridge]

They have no right to destory it then

[rose spoke]

No my best mate gave me his old iPhone 4s

I got a 15 I bought

[hexed ridge]

If they did not. Buy it they have zero rights of it

[rose spoke]

Well it doesn’t matter iOS 26 is making me switch back to the 4

[hexed ridge]

Well than try to keep your gender private

Untill u move out

Only say ur non binery to ppl you trust fully

[hexed ridge]

Atlast u can come out as gay my parents woud cursfy me if they found out im pan

[rose spoke]

I threw a pan of hot oil at them when they tried to tell me off my bf off for being with me “enabling me to be gay”

[hexed ridge]

Atlast rates in my courty of lgbtq are rising so in a few years il try to tell my parents

It jumped for 9% in 2015 to 30% in 2021

[rose spoke]

Lucky uk you have nothing

[hexed ridge]

But il prob tell them when im 18

I just hope they dont find out

[rose spoke]

I have two phones I bought to avoid it being found out

But they tryna find the passwords

[hexed ridge]

If My. Sis take my phone to chek smt and going in to any social media she will prob snich

[rose spoke]

True I had that that why I go on my alt account ( this one) main one is @idle barn

[hexed ridge]

Bro my bad memory kicked for a sec i forgot what this chat was about😭😭😭

But good thing tile exists

[rose spoke]

Non binary me

[hexed ridge]

U shood prob keep it secret till u cant no more

Or till ur 18

[rose spoke]

True I gotta change phone I am on a dying iPhone (I mean failing)

[hexed ridge]

U just gotta keep it secret for 3 years

Than ur 18

[rose spoke]

I try it is hard

[idle barn]

i kinda got exposed

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