I’m kind of questioning if I’m transfem or not, but I think I might be, I don’t know how to tell my friends or girlfriend nor do I know how to start really presenting fem.
#Help me please
finite palm
vivid lintel
do you cross dress? do you feel more connected to women/fem presenting people? do you wish you were born a girl? i would start here and if you say yes to all of these, you probably are. if you are, i would start by saying how you feel you would be better off as trans, and what name and pronouns you want to be referred to as. if they dont agree and plan on calling you something you dont want, its best to cut them off or let them know its what you truly want. leaving people who dont support you in life is unhealthy and will eventually erode your mental health. as for the presenting feminine, i would start by dressing in more feminine aligned clothing, such as crop tops and short shorts, as well as makeup if possible, usually lipstick and eyeliner.
another thing to add onto the clothing alignment is arm warmers, at least thats what i think would help.
finite palm
First off, I’m broke, second, my parents don’t know, third, I can’t buy anything without them knowing