I don't know what to do
#My family is very religious and I wanna be non-binary
weary citrus
vague needle
Subtle transition? Maybe buy a binder with ur own money, or come up with an excuse to buy one, maybe ask to get a shorter haurcut or grow ur hair a lil longer if u want maybe not somethin obvs but a lil diff, u could also buy clothes that are bigger then u to cover ur body if ur afab, make ur own tiny flags or stickers from craft if u want and be out to only the people u can absoultly trust
unkempt copper
also be prepared for the harsh truth that your family may not see eye to eye with you. people dont always talk about this, a lot of the time people usually say “oh they will come around” but sometimes they don’t. I went 4 years without talking to my Dad and his side of the family till they finally came around but I also have friends that are going 10+ years and counting without having any contact with their family. but in the end you should always do what is best for you, what is gonna make you happy and most comfortable with yourself. making other people happy is fun and all but your personal well being and mental health is always most important and if non-binary is who you are don’t be afraid to explore and figure yourself out. make yourself happy in this crazy world we live in. the right people will come into your life and hopefully your family will stand by your side and support you. but what the person said before loose clothing helps, maybe a haircut, binding (if you cant buy one you can use the old method of using medical wraps) or even simpler just rocking the heart pin with the enby flag colors.