uh..... how do I know if I'm trans??

[quick ridge]

So I haven't even come out to my family as a lesbian(except my other gay siblings who are all amazing) and I am now struggling with my gender. Yippee..... Uh.. Yeah so I don't know, I go by any and all pronouns and will accept whatever. The weird thing is, I have never once heard anyone use he/him pronouns to describe/talk about me. So.... I have no clue. Help-

[shy valley]

I’d say figure out if you have dysphoria (you don’t need it necessarily to be trans but it’s something to keep in mind)
I’d say also try out he/him like ask people to refer to you using them and see how you feel