So uhh some people in my family knows that I am panromantic and asexual but they just think the asexual is just a phase. But idk if I should come out to my mom as demi boy cuz she always says “you will always be my little girl” and she always just forces me to get rid of my leg hair which isnt a lot actually but I just wanna be accepted as what I am. Like my mom keeps thinking that shes always being judged by people for stuff I do and what I am like. So if I do something good she thinks that ppl think that “huh this kid was raised by a good mother” and if I do something and if I talk about some queer stuff then “damn this unfortunate kid was raised by bad parents”. My dad and his new partner doesnt know that i am panromantic or asexual.
#I dont know…
vale nacelle
Like I wanna grow a beard, I dont care abt the gender of my partner
I dont wanna be expected to have kids
So uhhh is it a good idea to come out to her as a demi boy?
gusty tundra
I've been in the closet for 2 years, and personally it's very mentally taxing. I have pretty much adopted the mindset that my life doesn't actually start until I'm 18. If you feel like coming out is going to cause a lot of unnecessary tension or conflict, then it could be best not to. But if you feel the weight of keeping it a secret is too much to bear, take baby steps to warm your family up to the idea.