emergency : my mom and dad told me they thought i was hiding something, and that hes seen my search History with ''gay lesbian stuff" and he was asking if i was interested in that stuff and things like that. Hes not homophobic, but now i HAVE to come out to him and my mom and itll be really awkward. I have until Wednesday to explain this stuff, and i dont know how to say that im bisexual and why its triggering such a response in me (i kinda started crying while he was talking to me about this because ive heard so many kids in my school ridicule lgbtq people) I NEED HELP PLSS. im gonna come out but i dont know how (im only 13 and im kinda scared theyll think its a phase)
#HELPP ME PLSS
jovial glen
prime zephyr
Idk bruh
Just wing it?
Ik that’s not helpful but in a situation like this u can’t really do anything else
jovial glen
okk thats true
round mango
And if they say it’s a phase ask them if they were ever asked if being hetero was a phase when they were your age
Makes ya think doesn’t it? 🧠
hollow cliff
any idea on what to say tho?
"i like women"
civic fjord
any idea on what to say tho?
Just ask them and if they give the striaght up no answer or try to deflect it on you, then you could say you were experiementing and was curious. If they give a straight up Yes Answer, then just be honest. Either way. They are your parents and they are proud of you no matter what.
jovial glen
Thank youu
should i jst be direct and say smth like for the past year or so i was xurious abt the feelings i was having so i decided to research it and i figured out i was bi?
tidal hatch
should i jst be direct and say smth like for the past year or so i was xurious a...
Probably, being direct would be the best decision in this kind of situation. Hope it goes well for you :D
civic fjord
should i jst be direct and say smth like for the past year or so i was xurious a...
Always be direct with parents. Try to read them. If they're not wanting to acknowledge it, just hint and say, oh I've just been researching it, and now, I think I'm bisexual.
jovial glen
guys i came out and my parents accepted it!! the only slight red flag was that they said that it may be a phase that ill grow out of or it may stay the same, BUT STILL I DID IT