Unsure

[drifting lagoon]

So I'm bigender and pan and I have a maybe homophobic family who I think also is transphobic. I'm 13 and my parents have started to catch on and I hope they don't find out. They said things will change if I was trans/pan and I'm scared I'll be disowned. I don't know what to do.

[hushed mango]

don't come out if it'll put you in danger