#ion even know anymore bro

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spring pivot
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how the hell am i going to tell my parents WITHOUT seeming weird that in the future....im NOT going to have a bf, NOT going to have children and NOT having a marriage. without telling them anything about lgbtq because theyre homophobic and would probably punish me VERY badly if i tell em i support (cough cough....TW FOR ABUSE ||i think ive gotten enough physical pain i dont think i need to make it worse by supporting what they call the "mindsick" people....huh...am i SICK TO YOU?||

i geniunely dont wanna force myself to get married 😭😭 and whats worse that future ""bf"" ill probably get forced to marry would probably want to have sexual intercourse with me, as most seen in my country EVERYONE has a family like its a need....or else youll be called "gone too wild" like??? ok i don't wanna have children is that bad?? am i unsuccessful?? oml wtf is with these people, oh to mention, theres a chance that ""bf"" is gonna throw me away for just not wanting to do the deed 🥰🥰

ok maybe i overthink im sorry

foggy pelican
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The only thing I can really suggest here is wait until you're financially comfortable enough to move into your own place.

As for your partner there are a lot of ace people that you could be with if you choose to find a partner. But focusing on yourself is a lot more important currently. You're surrounded by supportive people here and they value you just as much as anyone else. You don't deserved to be thrown away whatsoever. You can choose your own path but sometimes you have to wait. We're here for you

spring pivot
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:)

foggy pelican
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Hope you're okay

crystal igloo