My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year, and whenever she would compliment me she would say and or call me "handsome" or "handsome boy". She's a lesbian and has been for a long time, I'm Pansexual and, I honestly don't mind it she's called me handsome since the beginning of our relationship and, it really makes me question my own gender identity at times because I find myself liking it and, not minding when people mistake me for a male. (I look androgynous and I don't mean that in an I'm trying to be quirky and different) I just wanna tell her but I'm worried that she might not except me because of earlier conversations either where she had stated that she likes women only just women and I'm not trying to change my gender I like being a female but the thought of being called handsome is so refreshing to me as well. :bfdi_chewing: