Help? W mental + friends plz

[sturdy orchid]

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(Spoiled cause it just feels normal)

for some reason i just feel like i have to babysit my friends i feel like I get to scared if I leave them alone while their arguing cause it either ends badly or just badly and whenever I step in the majority of the time it doesn't end as bad as it does and from previous things in the past I just can't trust leaving them unattended together while arguing cause they may fight and get physical they may stop being friends ect ect I just hate the fact I feel like I have to try and babysit them and all I get in return is one of my friends barely calling me and my other friend calling me but keeps either trying to mentally use his trauma as an excuse or just doesn't know how to handle himself and I dont know what to do about it i just hate acting like the group tie for them

[sturdy orchid]

And here's a story my cousin got mad at me for telling her that her and my friend were in the wrong because they need to communicate better

Her-she just vented in general in the main part and when my friend responded(bad communication not knowing what to say but felt the need to respond) she immediately attacked him so me and my other friend tried to get her to understand the issue and stop arguing but no she then just left

Him-he told her oh? Good for you to a vent which is bad but yet again not knowing what to say and feeling pressured to say something especially when it just appears out of context when its a vent doesn't give you ideas but he also needs to learn how to communicate better

I may be in the wrong but I feel like communication is the key not ignorance

And what she and him did was ignore eachother while me and my other friend tried to communicate and calm the argument down

[neat shadow]

Yeah, I have a similar Situation like this. But if you want, I could be ftiends with you. My DMs are always open