need advice

[gentle ocean]

Idk if this constitutes as a coming out thing but i didn’t really know where else to put it

basically I’ve gone as a demigirl for a few months now, using the pronouns she/they and that’s been great but

1. I have a very conservative, religious community around me and it’s hard to feel out the pronouns they/them specifically in conversation- I’ve only come out to one friend so far and pretty much only discord knows I’m a demigirl
2. I was raised in a very religious household and while my parents are great, I never learned about lgbt really so I’m just trying to get advice atp (baby gay😔)

basically a friend referred to me as they/them and it felt really good- really right. it made me question if I really do want the pronouns she because I do sometimes feel like a girl but also more androgynous other times so maybe genderfluid but idk if that works for just those two genders?

I js need advice honestly 🫠

[stiff granite]

Genderfluid can absolutely be just certain genders, but there are specific subterms that some people use. Genderfae seems the most similar to what you are describing, but you'll probably want to do your own research from there

[heavy tusk]

I get that-most of my demi friends switched to enby after a while (doesnt mean you have too ofc!)
You can feel more feminine but still use they/them pronouns. Even if ur demi or trans any pronouns are valid to use, and you dont need to be its associated gender yk?