#Coming out

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grave reef
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Hello, I'm trans. Call me fenrir or Raphael

I’m still figuring things out and trying to be honest with myself, but one of the hardest parts is that I don’t know how to come out to my parents. They’ve said things in the past that make me worry they won’t accept me, and that fear has been sitting heavy on me. I just want to live as myself and be called by my name, but I feel stuck because I’m scared of how their transphobia might make them react

marble atlas
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Hey, if it puts you in any danger, I recommend not telling them

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But if your safe either way, your there child, so, if they don't support you that's bad

grave reef
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If I won't tell them now then when should I tell them?

shadow jetty
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I’d say once you move out and they no longer have direct sway over your life

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It’s the best way to avoid hate from unaccepting parents

grave reef
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A few years of waiting but it's a good idea