#I'm a bit unsure about things

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tacit barn
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So, I'm bisexual and genderfluid and I prefer she/her pronouns. But I've been thinking about if I should just transition completely or not. One of the biggest reasons I haven't transitioned to female is because of my family. My parents and my sister are the only people I've came out to and the rest of my family is highly homophobic, but they don't even know I prefer she/her, they call me he/him (which is good because I think it would feel weird if they called me a girl.).

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Also i just realized what I said was kinda confusing

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I was saying my parents call me he/him

versed otter
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@tacit barn If u want to, do it, even if the rest hate u or refusr to accept u bc its ur body at the end of the day, now if u want to keep the peace then u can, but if u want to be subtle abt it, start doing girly things if u want, wear more fem clothes, skirts dresses or even more traditionaly fem associtated stuff, wear subtle makeup or lots if u want, get a fem haircut or hairstyle if u want, just bc u arent out doesnt mean u cant dress like u are. Lie them and say u just dressing or looking that way if u want, if they dont accept then dont give them anyrhing to know

versed otter
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You're welcome

tacit barn
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And I've been growing my hair out to be more feminine

versed otter
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@tacit barn Thats amazing! Hope ur hair grows to be something ur happy with

versed otter
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Gn now @tacit barn have a wonderful night or day