I wanna come out but I don’t wanna upset my family

[echo breach]

So I’m a bit young and I’m aroace nonbinary (but I still use she/her pronouns) and and bisexual and my grandmother talks about how lucky men are gunna be to have me but I’m aroace and it’s kinda hard to show love and I don’t really like men that much I’m bisexual but i prefer women and I don’t wanna come out because it’s hard to I’m probably gunna do it in a couple of years because I don’t know how other people come out to their parents and yeah it’s hard to come out…

[peak bloom]

why do you want to come out?

[echo breach]

So they can stop imagining me being with a man

[peak bloom]

just tell them it makes you uncomfortable when they say things about you being with a man

[echo breach]

But that’s the point if I do that I might also come out on accident.

[peak bloom]

what might upset your family if you do?

[echo breach]

That I don’t want to be with boys😓

[peak bloom]

how do you think they might respond?

[stuck geyser]

honestly if all your grandma said was that then that sounds like just her giving a compliment with the info she has. I’d still test the waters with her but she was probably just trying to be kind