christian family.

[ornate kernel]

hello everyone, ill call myself by my true name. jesus, not by religion, just because its my birth name, im gay on a christian family. is still scared from coming out, mostly since my mother is someone who seems to hate homosexuals, exept my father, he is relaxed and even loves songs made by gay people, im still thinking of coming out, can anyone reccomend me in coming out in a certain year?- i mean in like, 2-??? years

[rocky ridge]

Come out after 2 years

Then even if your mom doesn't accept u it's fine

She will accept the truth soon enough

[rough cape]

Maybe don't come out to a homophobic parent until you're out of their house

[rocky ridge]

How do they know their parents are homophobic?

[rough cape]

"My mother is someone who seems to hate homosexuals"

[rocky ridge]

I'd like to ask them how they think their mom is homophobic

But his dad seems fine with gay people

So it's technically a 50/50 chance

[rough cape]

Definitely isn't a 50/50

[narrow barn]

I’m in a very similar situation. If you feel safe enough to do so come out to your dad because he seems to support gay people. How old are you? I would wait until you’re 18 or 19 and can find a place of your own to live before you come out to your mum, maybe even see if you can find a friend to stay with.I wish you all the best, feel free to DM me for more advice if you need it. ❤️

[ornate kernel]

Thanks for the advice, and im 16 years old, gay by choise mostly, didnt suffer anything to be like this (as how My mom says how all gay people are Made, basically SA'd), and also i think its a good idea the time You said i could do it, seriusly thanks. And i mostly i Will do that in my 19's without My mother's precense, mostly since i trust My dad more than her

[ornate kernel]

She doesnt really like gay people, doing harsh remarks when Even the tv shows it, Even con cooking channels she says that gay people ruined the show, plus when she sees one she walks faster and if they ask for directions she dissmises them, always bringing up the adam and eve thing when someone mentions a gay/lesbian or anything that isnt man abd woman relationship related, i mean, what she thinks isnt normal.

Also sorry for late response, here where i live its 4 in the morning

[rocky ridge]

Oh

[ornate kernel]

Yeah this is somewhat ankward but when i saw the channel i felt... Relief to talk about it

And sorry if My grammar is Bad or i wrote some words Bad, My Main language is spanish so uh.
I'm trying My Best to comunicate in english

[narrow barn]

Eeeeeeey my main language is also Spanish. I’m from Chile

[ornate kernel]

Diablo alguien de mi mismo pais-

[narrow barn]

Wait, you’re from Chile too?

I tried to send the message in Spanish but it blocked it :(

[ornate kernel]

Yeah

[ornate kernel]

You could send it to My dm, it should let you

[narrow barn]

COOL

[rocky ridge]

I see

Don't mind your mom

But still respect her, come out to your father first maybe?