How do I come out as transfem? | Pridecord | Page 1

molten flame Aug 16, 2025, 8:12 AM

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I’ve been questioning if I was trans for the past 3 years or so now and I recently discovered I 100% was, and my mum is okay with the LGBTQ+ to an extent but I don’t know what that extent is, she’s openly told me no matter if I was gay,Bi or anything she would always support me.

But she recently just got this new boyfriend and ever since she’s become a lot more random when it comes to her thoughts on things especially LGBTQ+ and I really want to tell her but every time I think about it I get scared to the core on what her reaction might be and what my brothers reaction will be because he doesn’t believe it it much at all, he’s fine with Gay and Lesbian relationships buts that’s about it.

I’m also super not in a position to move out then come out

fringe stone Aug 16, 2025, 8:53 AM

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Remember if you don't feel safe to come out don't it's the first step to coming out. You might try giving some hints I have no idea what hints to give try to turn your clothing style more girly or get women perfume I don't know what you like but consider trying this method!

formal kindle Aug 16, 2025, 9:54 AM

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doit when you feel the time is right

molten flame Aug 16, 2025, 9:54 AM

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fringe stone Remember if you don't feel safe to come out don't it's the first step to coming ...

I have some lights in my room that I've changed the colours to represent the trans flag and I tried asking if I can change style because she gets sporty clothes and stuff and she said smth like "your not turning into one of them emo's are you"

fringe stone Aug 16, 2025, 10:10 AM

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molten flame I have some lights in my room that I've changed the colours to represent the tra...

Did she say it in a joking tone or in a serious one?

molten flame Aug 16, 2025, 10:10 AM

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fringe stone Did she say it in a joking tone or in a serious one?

I couldn't really tell, I'm not very good at identifying tones

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It didn't sound jokey but it didn't sound malicious

fringe stone Aug 16, 2025, 10:13 AM

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You could try making more girly outfits from what you have in your closet maybe?

molten flame Aug 16, 2025, 10:15 AM

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Literally just Adidas, I used to love sports and I wore them to fit in, I've been looking for baggy trousers and plain T-shirts but she doesn't seem very intrest in the idea

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atm I'm trying to appear more neutral then girly until I start HRT because then I won't have loads of strictly boy clothes so when I start HRT I don't have to go and buy a whole new wardrobe

fringe stone Aug 16, 2025, 10:19 AM

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Painting your t-shirts is also an option if UR parents allow it

molten flame Aug 16, 2025, 10:24 AM

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I've shared my idea of getting some plain white air force one's off vinted and customising them but again she didn't seem so open o the idea so I don't think she'll be open to painting on my clothes

fringe stone Aug 17, 2025, 8:44 AM

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Hmm maybe you could make a bunch of pride pins and if she asks tell her that you support lgbt

#How do I come out as transfem?