So i'm not very good with all the genders and sexualities (some of them confuse me a lot) but i know i'm pansexual, and i have been for a while now. The thing is though, with my pronouns, because sometimes i feel more comfortable when people call me they/them [both in text (social media or texting apps) and irl] and sometimes she/her feels better. Other times i don't have a preference, and other times one feels better than the other, but i dont mind said other as much.
Does this mean i'm nonbinary or Genderfluid? I'm really confused, so if someone could help me out i'd be great ^^
Alr, that's it for now, ty for reading :3
#I need some advice
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it wouldn't be nonbinary, given that (i think) that's only they/them or smth like that.
i think you might be a demigirl or something similar :3
that's when you kinda feel like a girl, but not enough to actually be female-identifying, so usually she/they (an exception is my case, with they/them, but that's not important here rn).
what you're describing does sound like what i felt like when i decided i was demigirl, so i think that might be it :D
You could also be genderfay, a lesser known specification of genderfluid where someone only identifies with feminine or non-binary pronouns, never masculine pronouns. I looked into that a bit when I was (and still am) going through my gender questioning, and it's not a very well known label, but it's a helpful one. Of course, you could also go with what Mario The said, which also seems perfectly logical to me. Just choose whatever makes you happy, that's all that matters
Pronouns don't determine gender, so I can't really provide much, but if what you prefer does change you might be genderfluid or genderflux.