Came Out As A Femboy

[ripe spruce]

So... I asked my mom how she felt on boys wearing girl clothes... she immediately denied it, so now I know she won't support me on that, yet she supports me as gay, what do I do? I'm kinda lost and nervous..

[wide raven]

I'm probably not the best person to give advice on this specifically, but maybe just do it anyway. She can't stop you. If there's a way she can, maybe do it secretly when you're alone.

[ripe spruce]

That's the thing, I'm not able to purchase any, my grandma has my card and it alerts her of every transaction I make, she also specifically said "If I catch you in a dress, I'm going to beat your ass." Which I haven't told them that im fem yet

[wide raven]

Yeah, she shouldn't have that. Also, that isn't something that would be considered an acceptable reason to punish a child, and you are legally allowed to sue your parents if that helps.

If they do hurt you over this that is

[ripe spruce]

Well I'll be honest, I'm a minor, so I don't have an actual card in my name, but I see what your saying

[wide raven]

Ah. That makes sense then. The rest does still apply, although it would be harder as they could say it was discipline for using credit card for something you weren't allowed to.

The whole legality of discipline is stupid anyway

[ripe spruce]

Agreed

[terse vector]

I'm in a similar situation sadly you would most likely just have to wait until you're on your own which is what I'm planning on doing then you can do what you want. You could keep hiding it and do it in secret or come out. If you do decide to come out just know that if they don't support or treat you horribly then they are not good parents as no parent should spew hate at their child just because of who they are

[ripe spruce]

Okay

[paper lichen]

No