Should I come out to my conservative parents?

[tawdry lichen]

I'm Brazilian, so I apologize for my English, but I'm trying. I'm 15, I'm a boy and I'm bisexual, I'm dating another boy, we've been dating for two months, I've been talking to my friends and acquaintances about coming out, but I'm afraid of not being accepted and that it will even harm my relationship, I have everyone's support, but I wish I had my parents support too. I already talked to my mother about it, 4 years ago, about my feelings, she said I was too young and that I should forget about it, but she respected it, my father was always homophobic, my mother has become more homophobic now. Some of my friends said that I should hide it and never reveal it, live alone in the future with my boyfriend and that's it, but I wanted to have the support of my family, my parents are amazing but they have these defects that come from their childhood.

What do you think I should do? You can give your honest opinions.

[idle marsh]

You should sit your parents down and talk to them about how you truly feel.

[civic sand]

[naive sigil]

My personal advice would be to review the situation. If you think there’s a genuine possibility that they could kick you out of their house or something like that then I would suggest waiting until you can get your own place, if you think overall it will be ok and it will just take your dad mostly a bit of time then you should tell them about it

[hybrid tundra]

consider the benefits of telling your parents and the risks

[pallid pike]

OMG IM BRAZILIAN TOO

My parents are homofobic too, if I was you, I probably will hide it for more mouths and find the correct moment for tell it to them.

(Sorry if my ing is bad !)

[tawdry lichen]

I'm afraid of that

[tawdry lichen]

That's what I think, sooner or later they'll find out

[hybrid tundra]

i don't think you should if it will put you at risk to your physical emotional or mental safety

[tawdry lichen]

My mental health is already not good, I'm afraid of that too, so I think I'll wait so as not to put myself at risk.

[tawdry lichen]

This is really cool, it's weird but it's nice to talk to another Brazilian in English.

My English is also very bad

[hybrid tundra]

no your english is probably better than some native speakers lol

[tawdry lichen]

Don't say that, I don't really believe it.

[hybrid tundra]

non native speakers: [perfect english] sorry im not a native speaker my english is bad

native speakers: i want too go two there house with they're friends

[tawdry lichen]

I swear I didn't understand what you said in "native speakers"

[hybrid tundra]

no that was bad enlgish

i want to go to their house with their friends is what it should have been

[tawdry lichen]

And I have a British friend, but I don't know if my English is that good

[tawdry lichen]

Oh, now i get it

Thx you all, ill talk with my boyfriend about this, Ill see what he thinks

Thx again

[kind cedar]

Do it when you have a good paying job and can live on your own when you're 18, schedule a therapy appointment then talk to them so you can talk to someone right after!

[tawdry lichen]

Yeees, Ill think about it, I'm already talking to my boyfriend, thank you very much.

[kind cedar]

Yep! Np! Hope everything goes well

[surreal leaf]

I would sit down with them, and try to make them see how you feel, if that doesn't work, I honestly don't know what to do, but definitely try and sit with them and talk to them like Max said to, and hope that they will understand how you feel.

[tawdry lichen]

I thought about it, but it's too risky, my mental health is already unstable, if something goes wrong, I could lose everything and I'm afraid of what I might end up doing in desperation

So I'll go for a less risky option

But thank you very much 😁

[surreal leaf]

Of course, I understand!

[sly burrow]

if you use that method best u have someone u trust on stand by to make sure nothing bad happens to u.

[tawdry lichen]

Exactly, I already warned some friends about it

[sly burrow]

good

[sly burrow]

here is a hug 🫂

[tawdry lichen]

Thx, i love you guys ❤️‍🩹

[surreal leaf]

❤️