Last year I came out to my mum as trans | Pridecord | Page 1

silent hedge Aug 10, 2025, 9:49 AM

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Last year I came out to my mum as trans and she said "do you have a d*** that I'm unaware of" and I feel like telling her again but I'm really scared should I do it???

hearty cloak Aug 10, 2025, 8:07 PM

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tell her that being trans can also mean that you identify differently, it doesn't instantly mean that you did surgery

silent hedge Aug 10, 2025, 10:11 PM

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Ok

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Thanks

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I'm kinda scared

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She isn't very accepting

dull daggerBOT Aug 11, 2025, 10:09 AM

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My mom didn't accepted it at all at first, we didn't talk for almost a year. But then she saw an LGBTQIA+ association that made her understand. Now she animate some talk group in there. Maybe it can go a similar way to you, you can never rly know how will people react

shy peak Aug 11, 2025, 4:10 PM

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silent hedge Last year I came out to my mum as trans and she said "do you have a d*** that I'...

If she asks this again, confidently say yes

silent hedge Aug 12, 2025, 2:25 AM

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Ok

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But the weird thing is she supports being gay or lesbian but not being trans

dull daggerBOT Aug 12, 2025, 2:39 AM

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My mom was exactly the same way then the story happened

SceneKandiQueen ↩️

[Reply to:](#1404039006005755966 message) But the weird thing is she supports being gay or lesbian but not being trans

silent hedge Aug 12, 2025, 2:40 AM

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K

dull daggerBOT Aug 12, 2025, 2:40 AM

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I don't know how else to help you but feel free to dm if need to talk or vent ❤️ stay safe and take care of yourself

silent hedge Aug 12, 2025, 2:41 AM

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I'm also really scared to tell her because she always calls me her little girl and I'm scared and don't have the heart to tell her... Also thanks

dull daggerBOT Aug 12, 2025, 2:43 AM

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I was my mom boy before, now I am her proud daughter. Try telling her that you are still the same person, that you love her all the same etc (if that's the case obv) , You're not dead : You just need this to feel happ and be your true self

SceneKandiQueen ↩️

[Reply to:](#1404039006005755966 message) I'm also really scared to tell her because she always calls me her little girl and I'm scared and do…

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You could maybe say that to her.

silent hedge Aug 12, 2025, 2:43 AM

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Ok

dull daggerBOT Aug 12, 2025, 2:44 AM

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I am a cisgirl in the body of a transgirl so it's hard too, I feel you. And never forget : You deserve love and happiness

silent hedge Aug 12, 2025, 2:44 AM

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Thanks... I will

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Maybe I could start with they-them first

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I don't want to put stress on her

dull daggerBOT Aug 12, 2025, 2:46 AM

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If she's ok to talk about it, it's already a lot tbh, try telling her how important it is to you

silent hedge Aug 12, 2025, 2:46 AM

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Thanks

#Last year I came out to my mum as trans