Fake friend- what she has been doing

[keen oriole]

What hurts the most is how easily she replaced me. After the holidays, it took her less than a week to completely push me aside and act like I didn’t matter anymore. After everything we went through and all the trust I gave her, she moved on like I was nothing. And as if that wasn’t enough, she laughs when I’m having panic attacks or anxiety attacks — like it’s some kind of joke or performance. It’s one of the most humiliating and cruel things I’ve ever experienced. Instead of helping or even showing basic decency, she mocks me while I’m at my most vulnerable. No real friend would ever do that.

What makes it even worse is that she openly told me she would fake mental breakdowns, panic attacks, anxiety attacks, and even entire mental illnesses just so she could get out of lessons early or avoid things she didn’t want to do. She literally laughed about it, like it was some kind of game, while I was sitting there knowing how real and painful those experiences are for me and so many others. It’s absolutely disgusting and disrespectful to everyone who actually struggles with their mental health. She has no idea what it’s like to fight through real anxiety or to have a genuine panic attack where you can’t breathe or think straight — and yet she’s willing to pretend just for convenience and attention. I can’t even put into words how angry it makes me to watch her treat mental illness like an excuse or a performance, while at the same time telling everyone that I’m faking mine. The hypocrisy is unbelievable.

[loud dragon]

I’m sorry one of your “friends” turned out to be so shitty

People can really be assholes sometimes

But you must remember, not all people are the same. Please, don’t let this experience stop you from making friends in the future

[keen oriole]

I will try not to but she always comes back to me crying, she thinks that we’re still friends and she keeps reposting stuff about self harm and suicidal stuff yet she said to me that she has never done those things or thought of it

She also said that ppl who do it deserves to be in a mental hospital locked up away from society bc Thats what ruins society

[smoky cairn]

no the people who ruin society is people like her its so stupid like why be an ahole when you can be a decent human being and not be horrible for once they are the ones who should be locked up not people like us who have to deal with this crap

[keen oriole]

Yh

[keen oriole]

All summer, she has basically acted like I don’t exist. She hasn’t texted me once, and every time I try to join her in a game, she just leaves and joins another one like I’m some kind of problem she’s trying to avoid. On the rare times she doesn’t leave right away, I try to chat with her, but she completely ignores me. If I go up to her in the game, she literally runs away. It always ends the same—I just end up leaving because what’s the point? And it’s not just in games. On Snapchat, Roblox, even TikTok—no matter where I message her—she either leaves me on read, keeps me on delivered, or just doesn’t reply at all. It’s like she’s made it her mission to shut me out completely, and I can’t figure out what I did to deserve it.

My true friend even tried to step in and talk to her about it, telling her—without even mentioning my name—how it would feel if someone was being ignored all summer. And still, Lila just kept denying everything, acting like it wasn’t true, like she hadn’t been leaving me on read, running away from me in games, or disappearing every time I joined her. It’s almost worse that she wouldn’t even admit it, because it means she knows what she’s doing but just doesn’t care enough to face it.