#I am scared of my grandma

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near creek
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I rember being five and saying to her that I wonder how it would be a boy. She yelled at my with granpa until I cried that it is sich and unhealthy and that people are mentally ill and that it will only hurt me. I didn't tell her that I am trans bcs I didn't know it at that point. She is transphobic and honophobic also antitherian and anti furry
Everithing I am she hates. I never told her about that what I an truly. Tbh I never told any part of my family about that.
But she… I was crying at middle of Night because of an event that hapened [not confortable to talk about that] to the point I was choking and coughting.She just said I am dramatic and I decided to do that for attention. No I didn't. She told me that she will fake bully me to get ready for next year of school and I should answer to her with opposite arguments. At first I didn't bcs she is my grandma but then I started doing it how she told me. Guess who got yelled at being disredpectfull?
I don't want to be near her anymore. But ofc we go to holidays with my parents and her for two weeks soon.

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And this isn't even all T.T

ancient oriole
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aw I‘m so sorry! Maybe try talking to someone who understands and who you trust or calling a help-line

near creek
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I tried to talk to my parents and one friend
Ig I will just try the help line then
But first I will write things down
Thanks for the helpNekoCry

near creek
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Yeah I am why?
My grandma is pretty young tbh with 61 years old

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Oh okay

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Damn what😭

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Okay
I does even after this so don't worry👍

flint yew
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they don't have to.....she doesn't seem like a great GMA so they don't have to, if they do that's ok and I hope it gets better with her but that's not what has to happen

flint yew
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my dad is a transphobic, both of my grandmas and grandpa's are transphobic and super homophobic, my mom has gotten ||molested|| and they didn't care, they are shitty, I don't love them, there's no reason to love someone who has conditional love for me

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all of my friends have better grandparents

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their grandparents don't care.....

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its conditional love

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I give up mate

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believe what you wanna believe it's still shitty

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that's completely different

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but it's different, it's not an identity, it's not figuring out you are a different identity, it's not knowing people will hate and discriminate against you for it, it's not the same....it's just hair

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agree to disagree

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but it's not the same

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it's so different

near creek
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Being therian or trans isn't a choice

flint yew
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it isn't a choice

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if I could choose I would be a girl

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it would be easier staying my born sex

near creek
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If I could be a normal human and to not be trans or therian I would prb choose that tbh

flint yew
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wow

near creek
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...

flint yew
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yes there is, your sorta being a transphobe rn

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you're like my dad

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I feel like a boy, not a girl, I feel like I was born in the wrong body, this body isn't mine...

near creek
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Oh right at this princip I can choose if I want to be born into wealthy family or into poor family *no offense to anyone

flint yew
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im not going all the way into my transness with someone I don't know, some one who isn't being very supportive nonetheless

near creek
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Tbh I felt safe to vent or talk abt myself here but it doesn't seem like that with you

flint yew
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no

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that's not all it is

near creek
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No?

flint yew
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no it normally isn't

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yes there is

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yes there fricking is

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you are not smart

near creek
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Man and woman thinking is different

outer pebble
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Why is a bigot in an LGBT safe space?

near creek
flint yew
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you are a bigot

outer pebble
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Someone who doesn't like minorities (overall term for racists, homophobes, transphobes)

near creek
outer pebble
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Anyway dont listen to them they're being ridiculous

near creek
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Yeah ik

flint yew
outer pebble
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I'm sorry for what's happening. I don't exactly have advice, but I didn't want you to think what they said was true.

flint yew
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well you don't have a good outside voice

near creek
outer pebble
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You're telling them to ignore blatant emotional abuse.

flint yew
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trans brains aren't the same tho

near creek
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But how did me just wanting some tips for staying mentally okay with ny grandma turned into whole argument🙏 😭

outer pebble
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Is someone able to like kick them out of this sever are transphobes allowed here,-

near creek
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Not really T.T

flint yew
near creek
flint yew
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sure

near creek
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I am happy for that

flint yew
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they sent a yt link 😭😭

near creek
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Damn what😭

flint yew
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😭😭

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they called me the r slur 😭

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I'm so gonna cry, I feel so embarrassed

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for them!

near creek
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Thats the right thinking!

outer pebble
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I reported them to the mods hoping they get banned:/

flint yew
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thank you

near creek
outer pebble
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They're banned got confirmation👍

near creek
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Yassss