#How can I explain im pansexual

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spice wigeon
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I'm trying to explain im pansexual to my friends and they are confused as fuck I need help idk what to say 🤷‍♂️

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My lovers pronounces are she/he/they/it

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And my friends are confused about it

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zeni
She/him/they/it

Are talk
Ruin:
"Do you like more genders than those two or just those two?"
Ruin:
"Oh... nvm"
Ruin:
"She is a She/Him/They which means your pansexual"
Me:
"Nobody calls her they/it"
Ruin:
"It's still her pronouns
So, you're pansexual."

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Can someone help

errant forum
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I once saw an explanation that was basically just:
straight is when you´re attracted to the opposite gender
gay is when you´re attracted to the same gender
bi is when you´re attracted to both
pan is when gender and gender identity don´t matter to you in a partner (e.g. you´re fine with nonbinary, agender, etc. partners)

spice wigeon
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I'm just confused and don't know

crystal bobcat
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Pronouns do not equal gender

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Pronouns have basically nothing to do with sexual orientation

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I would tell your friends that pansexuality means that gender does not play a significant factor in attraction, and that it is similar to the concept of bisexuality.

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Perhaps I am misunderstanding your situation