hi, so ive been thinking about coming out to the server where im the most active. cuz theyre a bit like family to me cuz ive known them for a while now (not irl but we're in vc almost every day). its only <100 people. they also have an intro channel and i did one 2 yrs ago where i still used she/her pronouns. now i wanna make a new intro where i update it to he/they. problem is, theyre (mostly) transphobic or at least post transphobic memes sometimes or say something.
should i do it or nah?
#coming out to a discord server
final oyster
maiden spear
probably not.
wind roost
probably not.
I hate to agree. But trust somebody who came out to my entire school of 4 thousand kids. You probably shouldn't