need some help | Pridecord | Page 1

quiet pelican Aug 4, 2025, 3:23 AM

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im a transfem, but im really stuck on coming out. My mom and doctor knows, as well as close friends, but I just cant build up the courage to tell my dad. He is supportive, and I know that, but for some reason I just cant. I also get pretty shaky when I talk about trans stuff irl. I dont know what to do

rose reef Aug 4, 2025, 4:16 AM

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I suggesst writing a short letter and leaving it for him. Leaving it might be stressful but not as stressful as actually telling him. I think. I dunno I tried it before going to bed so it might actually be a terrible idea, it’s like 6 AM right now my parents are not awake

quiet pelican Aug 4, 2025, 4:16 AM

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rose reef I suggesst writing a short letter and leaving it for him. Leaving it might be st...

I cant push myself to write a letter or anything

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Its just too much work on me

rose reef Aug 4, 2025, 4:17 AM

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What about a little sticky note on the fridge saying „Hey dad btw I’m trans”

quiet pelican Aug 4, 2025, 4:19 AM

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I witerally canttt

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My friend had to tell my mom because i couldnt

rose reef Aug 4, 2025, 4:21 AM

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Why can’t youuuu?

quiet pelican Aug 4, 2025, 4:23 AM

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I just cantt

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Somethings stopping me internally

rose reef Aug 4, 2025, 4:26 AM

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Welp, I can’t help your internal problems, I can only give advice. Same with everyone here. We can’t help you until you help yourself

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